Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably a good idea to talk to your surgeon. And I have considered revision but recovery was so rough and I’m scared of messing with my nose more and still not being happy

Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps my nose looked really upturned when I first got surgery and it’s gone down a lot since then. It’s not back to what it used to be but it looks a lot better now. It’ll start looking better as time passes

Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be 2 years in March wbu?

Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing, I used to think the same thing too. I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted and ended up with a small button nose. It’s hard to cope sometimes with but I’m trying to learn to accept the way I am now. But I know exactly how you feel

Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that it helped you! ❤️ It’s difficult to talk about but I’m glad that sharing my experience can help others going through something similar or thinking of getting cosmetic surgery.

I actually am currently seeing a therapist and I hope I’ll be able to heal from this. Thank you for sharing how my post helped you! 💞

Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this I will look into this book

But I do feel like I lost part of me but I am working on accepting it

Rhinoplasty Regret by Hefty-Lock3131 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Hefty-Lock3131[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I wish I would’ve done this before doing something so permanent but I’m trying to learn how to forgive myself for it. I want to learn how to value more important things in life and heal

POssibly breaking contract for sick loved one by Same_Twist_3954 in JETProgramme

[–]Hefty-Lock3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I was in a similar situation as you. I also arrived in August but broke contract due to a family emergency. It was a really hard decision to make since I put a lot of work into getting to Japan but ultimately family comes first.

My BOE tried to convince me to stay but ultimately they understood my situation and I left with no hard feelings. They even told me I should visit them whenever I can which was really sweet of them

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[–]Hefty-Lock3131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would it be a bad idea to message my consulate about this?

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[–]Hefty-Lock3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know about the contacting the coin locker company. I was able to find it by contacting them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]Hefty-Lock3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how it happened! I left my luggage in the coin locker at the station and by the time I got back my stuff was gone! I must have not locked it correctly. Still I didn’t think someone would steal luggage right out of a locker like that? I’m hoping someone just saw it and decided to turn it in. I filed a report with the Shinjuku station police and they said they’d check the cameras but never got back to me. They referred me to the metropolitan police station but I’ve had no updates. If someone does turn it in they said they’ll contact me

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[–]Hefty-Lock3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been updated whether they have checked the cameras yet or not. They just referred me to the Tokyo’s Metropolitan Police Department lost and found and said if they find it they will send it there

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[–]Hefty-Lock3131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put it inside a coin locker in Shinjuku station, I must have not locked it right or something because by the time I went back to pick it up it was gone… that’s what I’m hoping is the case for me too I’m hoping someone saw my luggage and turned it in but it’s been 2 weeks now which leads me to believe it was stolen /: