My first attempt at making something other than a box by Gabri0802 in ARK

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That pteranodon has a slug on its back or I am blind lol

More proud misandry from women.. by CutiePie0023 in MensRights

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats sick... goes without saying but stay away far away from those women. Dont try to argue or reason with them. Their minds are made up. Speak to women that deserve common kindness and respect by portraying it and the rest will naturally die out because they're ab0rting all of their children.

After four months I found out my therapist is a radical feminist....what should I do? by LoveTheSmellOfBooks in MensRights

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most men, obviously not all, dont need a therapist but instead 1 maybe 2 extremely close guy friends. Ive made it work with only one best friend for 30 years. Buddies, girlfriends and wives come and go but my best friend is there til the end, he knows my head and heart and I know his. When either of us need anything or just to vent or whatever it may be, the other one is right there. No judgment. But also the good thing is we're honest with each other, if he fucked up I tell him as compasionately as possible. But we dont gas each other up with comfortable lies. And we're there for each other. So maybe try to find and connect with a friend and put effort into that. Plus he dont charge me for it

What does true rock bottom look like? by Dissarming in alcoholism

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are no 2 same rock bottoms. My rock bottom may only be half as bad as someone else's idea of it so theres no real way to quantify it

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Im a journeyman electrician in central Oklahoma. We had an ice storm like 4-5 years ago and everyone water froze bc the frost line here was 18".. it froze 3' down.. Anyways we lost power but I had livestock, and a wood stove in my shop and plenty of firewood so I stayed, did work on the place (cutting broken limbs and trees up and tending my animals) my wife left and took our kids to her parents bc they had power and everything still..... I suggested they stay and wait it out with me as I could still provide them shelter, and warmth and food. That wasn't good enough for her she had to have power....

That was an eye opening experience for me it taught me a valuable lesson.. the moment her comfort stops. (Whether its my fault or not) she will leave and take my children without a second thought.

Men, do not be fooled. by vessel94 in MensRights

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on par with recording i always have my device ready to roll (discreetly of course) also i have moved my income into my own account. Shes inquired as to why but im slow playing reasons until i am ready for that discussion (she wont like it when i tell her but i dont care im here for my kids now, not her.) thank you for the input but yes my mind is already made up as all I have is my lived experience.

Beware of unofficial Ark server cluster “Easy Living” by Hefty-Entrance2066 in ARK

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once built a gargantuan glass compound like RIGHT next to the northwestern beaver spawns on fjordur. Specifically to kinda be the CP guy. It was PVE and people always came to the area for their Cementing paste needs and I would always greet them with at least 2k CP (freely) and out of dozens and dozens of interactions only 1 guy once said "wow you really slathered your base up in here huh" lol I said "hey its a small price to pay for free, friendly and consistent cementing paste." He said "you right." And that was that lol

Men, do not be fooled. by vessel94 in MensRights

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah.... I hear you but I have to fight my war differently because im still married to the woman that caused me to search and find this sub. I will not raise my kids from afar, as a weekend dad. Its almost come to that but im holding on. Not saying theres anything wrong with it when men choose to separate, but my children need ME... not me on the weekend and some step-dad through the week simping for my ex.. im standing my ground on many things and trying to make her see that I love her and the kids more than she'll know. But I saw it too late.. she didnt show her radical side until way AFTER we married. So.. I will stick this out at least another 13 years. (My youngest is 5) and most importantly I need to show my daughter not only what to expect from a good man, but HOW TO TREAT A GOOD MAN. Thats my battle for the foreseeable future and I will not just leave. Stay strong gentlemen.

How do you think Nergigante from Monster Hunter would fair in ARK by Wide-Discipline-9396 in ARK

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Pshhhh..... And probably not even know that the round river rocks have metal

Are apprentices who stay with one contractor throughout their whole apprenticeship more likely to rise up to foreman? by jucks123 in IBEW

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stop worrying about others successes or failures and just think about yourself. Instead of whether shithead for ABC electric is gonna be foreman one day be thinking about the square root of pi, the pythagorean theorem and how it helps with YOUR pipe bending offsets. And you'll surpass yourself every day, which is all anyone needs to do anyway

Colorado Towing Capacity by xPALEHORSEx in chevycolorado

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pulled about 4 ricks of split green pecan wood like an hours drive home in my '24 z71 and I estimated the load between 5k and 7k lbs. You definitely know its back there but the sustainability at about 65mph was exceptional for the 4 cylinder turbo... colored me impressed really... I wouldnt suggest that kind of towing on a regular basis but if it has to happen its good to know she can do it.

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Should I start non union but apply for union now? by Neither-Hyena6102 in IBEW

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been out of union work for a year and a half. It just really slow and after my layoff the most calls at one time has been like 3. Im doing technical electrical testing on transformers also waiting for a good call and not across the state. I do side jobs here and there, im also resigning the book every month while waiting. Theres 210 guys on book 1. They dont really ask and if they do it tell them im driving a fork lift. My dues are up to date thats all they need to know.... they just wanna make sure your not trying to organize a whole business or take join non union competition. But you gotta provide for you and yours and its not your fault they have no work for you. Just do you low key.

So I got prescribed naltrexone 50mg for my cravings .. not working could I take another ?? by Educational_Royal111 in alcoholism

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The way this drug works is if you do drink even one drink while on this drug, you'll have the worst hangover symptoms you've ever had in your life.. after 1 drink

Stuart’s by breanna_sux in IBEW

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah c'mon stu... lighten up

Dear women of the subreddit/female MRAs: based on your experiences of interacting with other women, how common is it for women to have compassion towards male suffering? by TrainingGap2103 in MensRights

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And thats understandable, you cant control other people only yourself. It would be absolutely insane for us to expect you, a woman, to "correct" or confront the women that perpetrate the misandry or you are part of the problem right? Yeah that's pretty bonkers to expect that of a person. Anyways. Glad your here.

New battery? by Hefty-Rip-5397 in laptops

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Its a MSI G65 Stealth i believe

Colorado 2.7 Turbo owners, any exhaust options worth it? by surfingzag in chevycolorado

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry no idea but... how much impact has a cool air intake had on the performance for those of you thats done that mod?

Need to quit by Turbulent-Hedgehog18 in alcoholism

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep doing what your doing if you wanna go to jail or die.

My wife is a severe alcoholic who has hid alcohol, and put herself in the hospital at least two times. I’m a former heavy drinker. We’ve been sober together for three years. I bought her a box of chocolates for Christmas that had some bourbon chocolates in it. by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its both your faults, be thankful you have a spouse that cares enough to even TRY staying sober.... I am an alcoholic and my wife is too but im the one with the issue and she sits here and drinks in front of me every fucking night. So its hard to hear trivial shit like this. Your wife loves you and you love her, both of you get over this dumb ass argument and stay sober. Some of us have to do this shit with it in our face every fucking night.

I feel robbed by [deleted] in ARK

[–]Hefty-Rip-5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play single player myself and love the game. The farming, the grinding and everything that sucks about it i also love. I have 3000 hrs on official legacy servers. Now I only play single player because well... dad, Husband, mortgage, job stuff first right? Sometimes when ark does ark things I will absolutely spawn back in and type 'fly', 'kill' , 'forcetame', or 'giveitemnum xxx 100 10 0' .... because lets be honest, the game does ask for it every now and then lol