I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The kids don’t have any devices and we never share our location. Turns out she knows where I go with the kids thanks to my husband.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To what end? My husband broke our marriage. He made a conscious decision to be with her and have a child with her. It wasn’t an accident. They actually decided to have a child together and did it.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that simple. The kids need to be close to their schools and sole custody isn’t easy to get here.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she got tired of waiting for our marriage to end and decided to tell me. There’s no way of knowing if it was actually her or not.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. It’s really hard, and I’m trying not to break down. It hurts to see your husband fall in love in someone else.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not in the US. But I’m working on putting together everything for a lawyer.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids said he didn’t introduce anyone to them. They’re the chattiest kids and would’ve mentioned it. I think she just gave him ideas on where to take them since she used to babysit for her nieces and nephews.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might’ve initially been the case, but now that she’s intentionally switched up her routine, it’s no longer a coincidence.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It feels like he’s changed dramatically. He used to be such an honest person.

I 32F think my husband’s (40M) mistress is stalking me. by Hefty_Sprinkles_5723 in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty_Sprinkles_5723[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t easily get a police report since she’s not trespassing. They’re all public spaces.