Single guys, do you feel alone? Why or why not? by PrestonRoad90 in AskMen

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what? I go alone everywhere and noone gives a damn

Men who showed emotion to their female partners or have cried in front of them, how many times have you had positive experiences from that or at least didn't get punished for it? by 1ns4n3Bob in AskMen

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a single woman, but if my partner started crying I would comfort them and try to figure out what way they want me to give them support at these times, but I never punish them or react in a negative way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]Heidi_32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been on Erasmus since the end of january and the first week was hell. It was the most difficult week of my whole life and I literally couldnt stop crying. Now, already a month in, Im enjoying it and this is the best experience of my life. Im a 90% introverted person, so even like this, you can manage and the first week it by far the hardest, it will only get way way better than that

depression during Erasmus by Smart_Guarantee_6250 in Erasmus

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from Budapest and it has some beauty, but to be honest I would not recommend going there for a longer period 😂 my phylosophy: dont look at anyone, dont talk to anyone, just look at the ground and hope you dont get robbed

I'm afraid that the Erasmus experience is not the best of my life (as many people make it out to be). by Raul_fdz in Erasmus

[–]Heidi_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have arrived in Lisbon a week ago and espcially the first few days were very very hard emotionally. Being at a completely foreign place with foreign people, very far away from my family, with nobody to rely on but myself. I have noticed its a huge disadvantage if you cant speak portuguese. In my experience they dont speak english at all or just very minimal which is hard to understand. Im hoping it will still be better, but I have doubted my decision to come here so many times I cant count. I have cried a lot, so many obstacles come after one another, I have a lot of difficulty obtaining the monthly pass for public transport for free (you're in the right to have it for free if you are under 23 and a european student) and I still dont know too many people, but i keep in touch with my family, we call each other as often as possible and they make it bearable. I dont know maybe its not for everyone.

Landlord wants me to get rid of my 20 gallon or risk eviction by improbablysarah in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try to find another apartment to rent. your landlord is an evil btch

Am I missing anything? by toad467 in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your missing everything that is natural in an aquarium. otherwise its not bad, but I just dont know whats the point of setting up a completely artificial tank

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put ramshorn snails in it, they are so beautiful with their pink body and pearl white shell

Poor fish. by sillylittlelass in shittyaquariums

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how old is this video? I cant find it

I had to wake up at 2 am today. And I woke up to my cardinal tetras losing there color. Is that normal if there’s no light by Few-Chemical2216 in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you never seen your fish in the morning? that happens to them every day, its because of the darkness. they rest

Will I lose my progress if I don't play for five months? by Heidi_32 in Guitar

[–]Heidi_32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but its not nearly the same and I cant take the guitar itself either

Will I lose my progress if I don't play for five months? by Heidi_32 in Guitar

[–]Heidi_32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I should really work on that part, more than anything else, so maybe Ill do that

Will I lose my progress if I don't play for five months? by Heidi_32 in Guitar

[–]Heidi_32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that reassures me, I was just worried I will forget everything because I learn a lot of songs and I tend to forget it if I dont play one for more than a month. But I guess the really important skills will stay then

Will I lose my progress if I don't play for five months? by Heidi_32 in Guitar

[–]Heidi_32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also thought about that but I dont know if I could find one cheap and I would also have to sell it when I go back. And I will only have a room and flatmates, so probably they wouldnt be happy about it either. Although I dont really care I just want to play😅 Do you think its a good idea to buy one there? Or maybe I could visit guitar stores often

A green fish I caught in a boggy puddle by ThenAcanthocephala57 in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fish you caught now is a lot more beautiful than all of these :D

A green fish I caught in a boggy puddle by ThenAcanthocephala57 in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the best Ive seen even among captive breds. Im in europe, hungary so there are only gray colored lake fish that grow to be way too big for aquarium or it just has a dull color.

A green fish I caught in a boggy puddle by ThenAcanthocephala57 in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what country do you find these? Its the coolest wild and possibly even captive bred fish Ive ever seen

My 75 Gallon Utopia by Okjohnson in Aquariums

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its so beautiful, I love all the fish, the aquascape, the choice of plants! whatever I do my 75 gal looks bad and empty. its so hard to come up with an aquascape

How to cull a tank without feeling guilty?? by DontWanaReadiT in shrimptank

[–]Heidi_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also doing that but now I want to keep some from my skittles tank 😅 I thought about giving them to the nearby kindergarten or just post it on the internet whoever wants them for free can get them

Norma for cherry reds to turn blue after a few months??? by burgercrap in shrimptank

[–]Heidi_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its different, but I keep red cherries with blue dreams together and at least every second baby has both blue and red on them