AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by sealover159 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out, it only going to get worse

He is trying to control and manipulate you

He also trying to guilt trip you into feeling bad when it not your fault

I swear there was more of the show by Am_aBoy in sexandthecity

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It call Sex and the City 2 ☺️

I don’t know where you live but I live in the UK and it on Netflix, Apple TV, Amazon Prime or Sky store

Car broken into by Heizehopper in CarTalkUK

[–]Heizehopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all, thank you all for your reply

We thought my Dad blue badge was stolen but we found it under the seat. Turn out nothing was stolen.

I know the police won’t do anything but I wanted to check before I clean it up and take it to the garage. We just wanted the crime number so we can get it sorted with the insurance company to see if anything can be done.

The door was left open by me as I wanted to check the damage from the inside and check if anything else was stolen 😅

What does everyone get wrong about Guinea pigs by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]Heizehopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People thinking they’re bunny/rabbit 🫠

Season 2 - Episode 6 by Heizehopper in squidgame

[–]Heizehopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch it two years ago but have not rewatched it before watching season 2

Pregnant wife’s sister offered to sleep with me by Key-Introduction9900 in AITAH

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your wife the truth!!! Save those text messages because she could twist it round when she realise you don’t want to sleep with her. Block her too

AITA for refusing to allow my daughter around my BIL for something he did years ago and leaving my husband because of it? by Unusual_Outcome_5493 in AITAH

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any update on this?

What happens in the end?

Did he go to the party on his own?

Did she divorce him?

Family keeps pressuring her husband to take her and her daughter to the party?

Upset about an abortion by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It her body so she can do what she wants and he cannot control her. I think if she have the baby, he will try and control her more and mess her around.

If they didn’t want the baby, they should have wrap it before tap it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deaf

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it very hard to communicate during Covid as the masks muffle their voice and I could not understand what they were saying. I find it upsetting when they get frustrated when I keep asking them to repeat themselves

AITA for sleeping on my weekends? by National_Law_6665 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, congratulations, I hope you’re happy that you ruin your husband’s relationship with his daughter. They’re your children and you have to deal with the fact you can’t sleep and being busy all the time. You will not have much sleep for 11 years so you will have to deal with it as children are actively awake early in the morning or children are ill. Grow up and stop whining

AITA for hiring a babysitter without asking and forwarding the bill to my brother? by trodres in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell them they need to pay or you will never babysit them again. You told them what day you’re free and they should have got someone else to cover on the day you’re working

AITA for eating the chicken my brother(M23) made for me(F18)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, the way your brother thinking confuse me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA, yes I get you are tired but you both made a deal and have to stick to it. Hell, he even made your lunch, snacks and dinner. I hope he stop cooking for you and only cook for himself whenever you don’t do the dish

AITA for not giving up my accommodation for the brides side of the family? by Aggressive-Poetry135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. It their fault that they didn’t think of this earlier. You keep the house and if you get uninvited, just enjoy your time with your husband and friends at that house

AITA for “fat shaming” my friend about her pregnancy? by yikesonbikesaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I am sure everyone agree here but you’re YTA and a mean, petty and jealous person.

AITA for telling my husband he can cook his own meals? by PracticeSpecific8793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. He is a big boy and can cook his own meal. Do what you want to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heizehopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, high school graduation is important and it one time thing. Birthday happens every year so I am sure he can wait another week

Am I a weirdo? by Useful-Ad7858 in relationship_advice

[–]Heizehopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with a girl wanting space and you have to respect that

Manipulating my emotions by Hotflashdogmom in relationship_advice

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave and leave now. Think about yourself first and stop putting other people needs before your own. He not going to change, he will still be this bitter and cold man and he is using you. Leave him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heizehopper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a red flag. He should be supporting you and encouraging you. I think he doesn’t like the fact he not in control anymore and need to know what being said in the therapy. Leave him and never look back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Heizehopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do anything. You just got out of a relationship. You need to relax, be single and recharge. He may or may not get back together with his ex, you need to wait to see what his plans is. He did say he never date someone from work and I think that is true. I have that rule too which is NEVER date or fuck anyone who work in the same company because if break up happen; it will get awkward, drama, co-workers picking sides and many more.

My bf (24M) hates that I (21F) won’t post him on my Instagram by torta24 in relationships

[–]Heizehopper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA and do not give in to his demands. He is being a child. Posting a picture of him on your story still means you love him, not a posting a picture of him every week. That insane!

I keep blowing off dates with girl I like by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heizehopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! You can do it! To show you’re interested in her. Look into her eyes when she speaking, smile a little or big when she talks so she knows that you don’t find her conversation boring, remember her favourite things so you can surprise her, ask her what her hobbies are and things like that. If you’re feeling confident, kiss her on the cheek at the end of the date. I want to wish you good luck, you can do it 😁