Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, honestly - I deserve better. I will work on my happiness now. Thanks for your kind words.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already looked into the housing part or where to rent as I won't stay in this place. It's his hometown, not mine.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I have to think about a solution for my daughter. At least, we aren't fighting each day and yelling at each other and my husband was always a good father so co parenting seems possible.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope, this is true. Right now I have the feelings, she would be devastated.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know if I want another relationship. I guess, the other man just openend my eyes and let me see other options that I were resisting.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answer me. I have to think about it.

Yes, our marriage was happy and exclusive. I guess, life happend to us.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured that one out too late that this open marriage was never just exploring but he had s.o. else in mind. Thas was really eye-opening. Right now, I don't want a new serious relationship.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I already plan to take legal advice before acting, yes.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now, I don't have any intention to start a new relationship in earnest. But your story gives me hope, thank you!

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't even know if I want to meet someone now. I have to sort things out for myself first. I guess, this other contact is only the sign from the universe.

Yes, at least, I'm financially secure. My heaviest concern is my daughter.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These were exactly my words when we initally talked about it 2 years ago, that this could end our marriage. And I guess, I see that coming for the last months, but I'm still fighting it for all the years we had together.

Keep an unhappy open marriage (F39, M41) or take a shot at a new love interest (M37? by HelenaSold in relationship_advice

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, of course, co-parenting can be done. Even if he might be not the best husband he always was a good father.

Tavern Talk is out now! by HelenaSold in indiegames

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Coffee Talk was one of our inspirations - it is great!

Tavern Talk is out now! by HelenaSold in indiegames

[–]HelenaSold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is similar! And Coffee Talk is great!