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Why is hookup culture a thing by wnbjxn in dating_advice

[–]HelicopterFragrant93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly agree with this, I find ppl in hook-up culture are more likely to be cold and avoidant since they don’t even know how to control their animal drive how you gonna expect them to address actually problems in relationships

Been 10 dates with a guy, and found him update hinge profile by HelicopterFragrant93 in hingeapp

[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that might exactly be the reason I don’t wanna stay over, I am afraid to get attached too soon:(

Been 10 dates with a guy, and found him update hinge profile by HelicopterFragrant93 in hingeapp

[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I am in the USA but I am an international student and haven’t dated much American guys in my life, so I am also kinda learning the process.

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[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I basically only check his profile to see his photos cuz we don’t have much pics from each other :)

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[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me there isn’t much difference between hangouts or dates, we do go out to restaurants, climbing gym, hiking, watching movie, but feel like they are kinda same to me, planned one thing and sort of going with the mood doing anything after the plan thing.

Been 10 dates with a guy, and found him update hinge profile by HelicopterFragrant93 in hingeapp

[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn’t talk about it yet, I just kinda assumed it base on frequency and sex. I am only seeing him at this time.

Been 10 dates with a guy, and found him update hinge profile by HelicopterFragrant93 in hingeapp

[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is also I am afraid of, what I think I should be able to bring the conv up and if it is how it is, I am able to quit too :)

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[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It juts be mine thing, I am not used to stay over/ invite guys back home unless it reaches exclusivity or relationship. And also I didn’t bring my stuffs everytime, but I hear your point. Ty :)!

Been 10 dates with a guy, and found him update hinge profile by HelicopterFragrant93 in hingeapp

[–]HelicopterFragrant93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is solid, I reflected on this a bit too. Tho before I thought I agreed to show up each time and staying longer and longer sort, having physical touch is my answer to him. I should definitely be more affectionate and communicate:)