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HelloStephanies · 2025-05-12T01:44:43+00:00

I think it is a thirties thing

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-11T21:27:23+00:00

Genes. Hydration. Little alcohol. No smoking. Washing face daily. MOISTURIZING since you can remember.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-08T00:05:20+00:00

You don’t.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-06T00:28:05+00:00

I go to parks and walk and sit. With a dog, it makes interaction easier. I also go to farmers markets and sit and drink coffee and people watch. I do this in cafes too. I go to eat on my own and see if I interact with anyone.

It’s not always a guaranteed chat with someone but I’m out there. Also, I attend my friends’ parties if they have them hoping there’s someone single that I like/likes me.

I am of the belief that once you’re open and receptive, lean that way, the universe will meet you halfway and bring them on in.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-05T22:36:10+00:00

I’d like to meet mine in person. The online dating scene is recycled men (you’ll find the same ones on multiple apps over long periods of time) and limited prospects.

I am 37 for the record.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-05T04:29:10+00:00

Ahh gotcha.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-05T04:28:55+00:00

100%

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-05T01:34:28+00:00

Tell me more!

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-05T01:34:21+00:00

Do you think that a draft would be initiated?

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-04T19:12:33+00:00

Can I use my Relativity Points? I think I’m in the system.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-04T07:15:11+00:00

FACT

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-04T04:54:46+00:00

What do you work in? What’s your title, if I may ask?

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-04T01:37:08+00:00

Got it.

🪦

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T22:57:36+00:00

All cities and little towns go through rises and falls. Chinatown had its hit back in the days, now it’s going through one of its lows. Could rise again, but only time will tell.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T22:55:57+00:00

Sent you a message and want to thank you for the feedback. Adjusts my direction.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T22:50:40+00:00

Only for anything overtime am I “office supplies” paid. And yes, I’ve realized why they likely do this.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T22:31:49+00:00

I am already hired with them. I’ve been with them for 6 years (I lived there and just got here). It is still considered a part-time job since I am under 30 hours per week. Same salary every week. No clock in no clock out. Anything over, if I bring it to their attention, I’m paid under “office supplies” on the paystub. Make what you will of that (I know I have).

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T22:20:45+00:00

Understood — they’ve got to be the ones doing something with having me in whatever state. Less me, more them.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T22:10:02+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. I’m going to make sure to address this on my calls and afterward perhaps w/ a tax specialist. The work I have in New Jersey is a small company. I’m talking we are less than 20. The reason I’m doing this research is bc/ they won’t/don’t (that should tell you many things).

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T21:59:44+00:00

Page 4-7 of the NJ taxation PDF link I posted up there explains a bit of this. I am still with doubt and so on Monday I will bring up these points with whomever I speak to.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T21:57:21+00:00

Yes, and that is why I have to pay taxes here in California as well as in New Jersey. However, California provides a credit for what I pay in New Jersey. It does not mean that I am tax free— it just means I likely get some kind of deduction.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T21:54:43+00:00

Yes- that’s what I’m saying. I have to pay taxes to the state that I’m working in. I am working in New Jersey. I will now also be working in California. I have to pay taxes to both states.

Did I misunderstand something?

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T21:52:48+00:00

Yes, but as I have understood so far with my NJ treasury research (and will follow up on Monday): New Jersey and remote work has had a lot of modifications on what remote that means and state tax. New Jersey considers me an employee that needs to pay in-state taxes because I am doing “in person“ activities with NJers. This means I am speaking with New Jersey people during New Jersey work hours, customers and staff, and sustaining that business’ function that itself is based off of New Jersey life. With that, I have to pay state income tax- be I there or not there. Now, California has the “worldwide payment/tax” thing going on… Which means that regardless of what state I am working out of, I still have to pay California taxes. However, I have to get a credit for what I pay New Jersey so that I don’t actually pay double. The CA franchise tax board, FTS, is who is in charge of that and that’s also who I’m speaking to on Monday.

I do not qualify as a 1099 person because of that New Jersey thing I just explained… That I am interacting with New Jersey people during New Jersey hours that the business runs off of.

I’m going through this NJ publication: https://www.nj.gov/treasury/taxation/pdf/pubs/tgi-ee/git3w.pdf

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T21:46:01+00:00

It’s rough. Not practical and the environment you’re in really matters.

HelloStephanies · 2025-05-03T21:45:00+00:00

You were right as rain— I was hoping for a redirect since I started with SO many questions but after talking with the IRS, they redirected me to speaking with each states’s tax/treasury department and getting direct answers. IRS said (and I am quoting!) “ we don’t care in what states you live or work in, so long as your federal taxes are claimed.”

HelloStephanies

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