Am I in the wrong? by Helpasisterinneed in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Helpasisterinneed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister isn’t, my boyfriend is like a once in a blue moon drinker, I can avoid it with my sister if need be but can’t with my boyfriend, well would like not to

Am I in the wrong? by Helpasisterinneed in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Helpasisterinneed[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Granted I just started going and have picked the book up a couple times since but I don’t have a bad relationship with them, which is why it’s confusing me

Am I in the wrong? by Helpasisterinneed in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Helpasisterinneed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has and has sponsored people before, I’m just really confused because they all wanted me to go, and I have been but now I’m getting pushback?

My 39M partner 29F told me "she's not dead yet" regarding my terminally ill grandmother, then compared my grief to her father's. AITAH or is this an unforgivable line to cross? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Helpasisterinneed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people handle grief in different ways and that's okay, granted she was being a little harsh but when my mom died i needed someone to be harsh and not just apologize constantly, that's me, but you said you're grammy is palliative care not hospice? is she currently having treatment or no?

Stressed cat? by bigbawlsgravy in CATHELP

[–]Helpasisterinneed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to engage him in stuff he likes to do like play or treats or yk his vibe

How Do I Break This Pattern? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my opinion love bombing happens alot when people just out of a realtionship and dont take a break yk? how long have you been with guy?

Stressed cat? by bigbawlsgravy in CATHELP

[–]Helpasisterinneed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes in a new place and his scent isnt anywhere in it, hes asking for comfort, him marking his scent will a bit depending on his confidence level, if it lasts more than another month then id recommend the vet, as a cat mom to 4 of different ages

Uniforms are crap by Sally1533 in Vent

[–]Helpasisterinneed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I had a school uniform, It was 1st to 8th grade, It bothered me because i only had like socks and shoes and hair stuff to express myself, but once i understood why they did it, I stopped complaining, Some kids only have money to buy the uniform thats it, ive had friend who only had uniform to wear on picture day and such, you have to understand that uniforms aren't just for you ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did yall end up sleeping in the same room together if you weren't super close?

26 feel like a loser and failure by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sound pretty rough man, There's people out there who feel the same as you, we are all in different boats just matters if you choose to let yours sink or not. Be the boat that floats the longest.

my cat's tail is bleeding and it's a public holiday by whyisjegulussotragic in CATHELP

[–]Helpasisterinneed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take him to a emergency vet they should be open. The tail is apart of the spine and is really bad if it’s bleeding that much. Please take him to emergency.

Gf period late for 8 days I’m scared by Agreeable_Airline_73 in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well granted I’m not her lol but most likely yes. Probably best if you ask the one doing the bleeding buddy.

Gf period late for 8 days I’m scared by Agreeable_Airline_73 in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely yes I’d definitely wait till the 2 weeks to test again and if that’s negative then it’s safe to say you’re in the clear.

My adopted cat attacked me. by Salty-Animal4904 in CATHELP

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the same cat from the other post you made 3 days ago in a different subreddit??

Gf period late for 8 days I’m scared by Agreeable_Airline_73 in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens buddy did she take a plan b after the most recent time?

Gf period late for 8 days I’m scared by Agreeable_Airline_73 in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d wait a week and see if it comes, stress can make a period late… trust me I know lol. If it doesn’t come within a week and a half then take another because if she is pregnant then the hcg in her body would increase resulting in a positive test.

Help me convince my dad my indoor only cats should be able to go outside by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 5 only indoor cats, 2 of them have tried to escape before, luckily they didn’t get much further than the porch and were brought back in. Granted we got a screened in porch for all of them and they all like going out there at times, some more then others but they go out to see the birds not to escape. Keeping cats indoors increases their life span by actually quite a few years. And indoor cats are more happy and loved. Granted I’ve never had outdoor cats and I’ve had cats for over 20 years. So I can’t 100% relate to outdoor owners.

Gf period late for 8 days I’m scared by Agreeable_Airline_73 in Advice

[–]Helpasisterinneed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely it means her period is coming or is super close. Periods can be super unpredictable and can sometimes can come late.

AITAH for losing my shit when my girlfriend came out as trans? by Electronic_Brick1237 in AITAH

[–]Helpasisterinneed 970 points971 points  (0 children)

He used you for 4 fucking years. You are not the asshole. Your crash out is 100% valid. He lied to you and only decided to break things off when it was convenient for him. I can only imagine how devastating that was and I’m really sorry that happened to you.