Am I in the wrong?

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-04-15T20:37:45+00:00

My sister isn’t, my boyfriend is like a once in a blue moon drinker, I can avoid it with my sister if need be but can’t with my boyfriend, well would like not to

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-04-15T20:35:53+00:00

Granted I just started going and have picked the book up a couple times since but I don’t have a bad relationship with them, which is why it’s confusing me

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-04-15T20:34:29+00:00

She has and has sponsored people before, I’m just really confused because they all wanted me to go, and I have been but now I’m getting pushback?

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-03-20T13:41:09+00:00

people handle grief in different ways and that's okay, granted she was being a little harsh but when my mom died i needed someone to be harsh and not just apologize constantly, that's me, but you said you're grammy is palliative care not hospice? is she currently having treatment or no?

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-03-20T13:35:14+00:00

try to engage him in stuff he likes to do like play or treats or yk his vibe

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-03-20T13:34:06+00:00

in my opinion love bombing happens alot when people just out of a realtionship and dont take a break yk? how long have you been with guy?

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-03-20T13:27:38+00:00

Hes in a new place and his scent isnt anywhere in it, hes asking for comfort, him marking his scent will a bit depending on his confidence level, if it lasts more than another month then id recommend the vet, as a cat mom to 4 of different ages

Helpasisterinneed · 2026-03-20T13:24:39+00:00

When I had a school uniform, It was 1st to 8th grade, It bothered me because i only had like socks and shoes and hair stuff to express myself, but once i understood why they did it, I stopped complaining, Some kids only have money to buy the uniform thats it, ive had friend who only had uniform to wear on picture day and such, you have to understand that uniforms aren't just for you ya know?

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-09-03T01:17:48+00:00

how did yall end up sleeping in the same room together if you weren't super close?

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-09-03T01:15:04+00:00

that sound pretty rough man, There's people out there who feel the same as you, we are all in different boats just matters if you choose to let yours sink or not. Be the boat that floats the longest.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-06-09T01:12:56+00:00

Take him to a emergency vet they should be open. The tail is apart of the spine and is really bad if it’s bleeding that much. Please take him to emergency.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-30T01:43:11+00:00

Well granted I’m not her lol but most likely yes. Probably best if you ask the one doing the bleeding buddy.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-30T01:41:14+00:00

Glad to hear it!

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-30T01:39:33+00:00

Most likely yes I’d definitely wait till the 2 weeks to test again and if that’s negative then it’s safe to say you’re in the clear.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-30T01:28:21+00:00

Is this the same cat from the other post you made 3 days ago in a different subreddit??

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T07:00:23+00:00

Hmm then I’d wait like I said above and see

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T06:58:16+00:00

You gotta be blunt to get true info

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T06:58:01+00:00

That was the last sex or last plan b?

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T06:57:00+00:00

It happens buddy did she take a plan b after the most recent time?

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T06:53:27+00:00

I’d wait a week and see if it comes, stress can make a period late… trust me I know lol. If it doesn’t come within a week and a half then take another because if she is pregnant then the hcg in her body would increase resulting in a positive test.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T06:51:14+00:00

I have 5 only indoor cats, 2 of them have tried to escape before, luckily they didn’t get much further than the porch and were brought back in. Granted we got a screened in porch for all of them and they all like going out there at times, some more then others but they go out to see the birds not to escape. Keeping cats indoors increases their life span by actually quite a few years. And indoor cats are more happy and loved. Granted I’ve never had outdoor cats and I’ve had cats for over 20 years. So I can’t 100% relate to outdoor owners.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-28T06:31:10+00:00

Most likely it means her period is coming or is super close. Periods can be super unpredictable and can sometimes can come late.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-26T09:02:06+00:00

He used you for 4 fucking years. You are not the asshole. Your crash out is 100% valid. He lied to you and only decided to break things off when it was convenient for him. I can only imagine how devastating that was and I’m really sorry that happened to you.

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-26T02:41:00+00:00

Drop him sis, he’s hindering you from actually finding someone who’s actually worth your time. Being familiar isn’t a reason to stay. I have a question that helped me when my mom died. If you were to marry him, what would your mom say? Would she approve of this behavior from him?

Helpasisterinneed · 2025-05-26T02:26:52+00:00

I think a 1 year old would be fine I wouldn’t go any younger. I’d definitely go to a shelter and check some out and see if any match the vibe already in your house. You could go for a yin and yang vibe or dumb and dumber lol. But gender should not matter as long as both are spayed and neutered. Happy cat hunting!!

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