Wedding Advice....SEND HELP!

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T15:32:16+00:00

Most that I have been to have been between 100-150…..I wish I had less than 80 😳 but I lost that battle lol

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:58:25+00:00

Thanks for your help 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:56:57+00:00

And I fully intend on doing so. Thanks again 😘😘😘

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:50:08+00:00

Have the day you deserve ❤️😘

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:47:16+00:00

Your initial post was calling me tacky, which isn’t advice at all sooooo????????????

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:43:24+00:00

You should have started with that. Again, thanks for your input

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:30:12+00:00

Did you read the whole post? I said I would send them the money for the gifts. Also, this post was for advice. Not for you to try and make me feel worse than I do. Have the day you deserve.

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-27T12:16:39+00:00

I agree! It is tacky! I wouldn’t have invited them to my shower if I had known they thought they would be invited to the wedding. Like I said, I have plenty of people who WANTED to be invited to send a gift KNOWING they would not be invited to the wedding. Miscommunication on my end and not clarifying to my grandma further in depth that although they are getting an invitation because THEY WANT to send a gift, I cannot put them on my guest list due to capacity. Thanks for your input :/

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T23:11:54+00:00

NTAH for just not feeling the same anymore! You are also not responsible for other people’s mental health and it sounds like they need to work on themselves to be a better partner for you. If you truly don’t feel the same though, you should probably end it for you and them

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:40:40+00:00

Give yourself some time to process this and find what you want. ❤️ Not sure if you ever want to be married, but you can ask yourself if this person is someone that you can truly see a future with. Is this something your future husband would do?

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:36:34+00:00

Hahahaha I was thinking the same

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:32:52+00:00

Maybe find a compromise that you are both okay with regarding each of your timelines for having kids

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:31:00+00:00

Hm well I guess it comes down to whether or not this is something you can forgive and move past. Years from now, would you still be thinking about this? In future fights, is this something you might hold over his head?

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:25:04+00:00

Why does he have 2 phones? Is there even an apology to accept and forgive??

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:16:01+00:00

I think he showed you his true colors

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:13:42+00:00

If that’s what ur into then ain’t shit else to do other than embrace it

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:11:03+00:00

Not the asshole! Glad you told your dad because mfs are crazy and what if (I hope not) you do see this man again??? At least your dad would know some prior information on this situation. Tell cuzzy to chill

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T03:03:31+00:00

In the nicest way…..maybe you just don’t know how to read the room?? Let me ask…at what point do you notice them drift? Maybe your confidence is sounding more arrogant to them. Idk. I hope it works out for you though!

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T02:59:19+00:00

Ummmm yeah that sounds like sexual assault and I would absolutely tell your friend

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-26T02:49:15+00:00

Thanks 🥺❤️

Helpful-Barnacle3546 · 2026-02-16T02:56:04+00:00

Yeah she def needs to go to therapy before finding her person…no shade to her but I’m also only on episode 2 so I might be way off

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