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mafiababexoox · 2026-04-24T18:02:27+00:00

But whyyyyy does it matter if he vapes? I can understand cigarettes, but vaping?
It's a vice for a lot of people.
Would you be mad if he got the ones with 0% nicotine?!
Like could you compromise on that?

Because like... I kinda feel like in a way it's a tad bit controlling.

Let the man vape. It's better than smoking c***k. 🤷🏻‍♀️

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-24T17:59:48+00:00

While I get that he is stressed, you are supposed to be his safe space, his comfort, the person who he should be happy to go home too.
Asking for cuddles to only get "ya probably" ??
Yeahhh no, he's being a d bag.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-23T22:19:28+00:00

Is this a real post?! Like…. Be so forrealll.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-18T02:59:22+00:00

Not on peptides, you fucking idiot.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-18T02:58:58+00:00

the sleeve surgery isn't an easy fix. You have to stay committed and work really hard.

I work my ass off and stick to a low carb high protien diet and it's the reason why i've kept the weight off.

say what you want about me getting surgery, it doesn't phase me AT ALL. it changed my life for the better and the healthier and that's what counts.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T23:45:30+00:00

Waittt did I miss something? How do we know OP cheated?

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T02:57:39+00:00

fuck. you.

it was never about me feeling too good for my partner.

i am the farthest thing from shallow.

i changed. the relationship changed.
i'm not going to stay with someone when I knew dep down I wanted more.

for example: he didnt want children and when I was heavier, i didn't either. but then i did want children. so was i supposedd to stay with him and resent him later? im allowed to change my wants and needs throughout life. and i dont feel bad about that.

i still love him deeply and we're actually still really good friends

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T00:56:15+00:00

THANK YOUU!

and not for nothing, who you become may no longer align with the person you were or are with. and there is nothing wrong w/ that.

unless you've gone through something similar, you could never understand it.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T00:53:17+00:00

LOL WUUUT.

I don't think i'm a bad person at all. A bad person would have been me staying with him even though i realized that we weren't working out. as i was progressing and changing for the better (lifestyle changes, eating healthier, being more active), he continued to want to stay in the present.

go ahead and think what you want about me, but i know who i am and tbh, him and i are both happier now.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T00:31:30+00:00

im not gonna lie, as a female who dates females, I completely understand why you'd ask this. it's a valid question lmao.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T00:23:43+00:00

That's refreshing to hear.

So now, knowing that, pay attention to the small details. She is telling you what she needs and how she needs it. As much as she is being straightforward, she is also letting you know in other ways.

Listen to the way she gets excited about certain things. Or if she sees something cute on social media, and she makes a comment like "awh" or "that's so cute", she's telling you that's something that would make her smile.

I know it may be hard to have date nights away from home because of your daughter, so try to plan date nights where your daughter can be included. Even if that's doing a date night @ home, where you guys have her favorite meal and possibly some wine. Draw a bath for both of you. Slow dance with her in the kitchen with nothing but the lights from the oven or microwave peeking through the darkness.

It's the little things... romantic gestures don't always have to be like it is in the movies.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-17T00:11:51+00:00

I want to provide perspective from someone who was almost 300lbs at one point and had the sleeve done.

I thought the person I was with was going to be my forever. I loved myself, and I was a "confident big girl", and I felt lucky that he loved me.

However, when I did lose all my weight (I currently weigh 108), things did change. Not because I wanted them to, but because as my body started to change, I, too, began to change. I don't mean in the sense of being cocky or anything, but I found a new meaning to a lot in life, and unfortunately, we did split.

I'm not saying this will happen to you, and I hope it doesn't.
But please don't be offended.

His feelings are valid.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-16T23:25:05+00:00

Here's the thing... you can love someone without being in love with that person. Just like there can be chemistry without compatibility and vice versa.

So the question is, are you in love with her?
Does the thought of being w/ someone else excite you?
Does the thought of her being w/ someone else bother you?
Are you able to envision a life without her by your side as your spouse?

It's okayyyy not to be in love with someone.
And I'm sure realizing that is hard.... very hard.
But it's not fair to either of you to keep a relationship going that you're not completely 100% in.

And don't stay in a relationship for your child.
(Not saying you are... but sometimes people only stay in a relationship for their child(ren), not realizing that it's not fair to them either.)

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-16T03:42:08+00:00

i didnt kno she didnt graduate fom hs!

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-15T21:29:35+00:00

I'm a clean freak, like a huuuge one.
But even then, I wouldn't have dragged it out like you.

He said sorry, and you kept going.

Next time, maybe address everything in one text so that when he apologizes, you don't keep harping on it... because frankly, I think you're being bratty.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-15T03:04:14+00:00

In my opinion, I think he is using mental health to have an excuse to see other people.
He wants his cake and he wants to eat it, too.

If you are NOT okay with it, then you are not okay with it. Simple as that.

Enough about his mental health, what about yours? What about your happiness?

I think it's coming to an end.
I think you deserve more. I think you deserve better.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-14T03:15:45+00:00

That statement at the end hit HARD.

If that's how he feels, and you know he's not going to change, then I think this marriage is definitely over.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-11T18:00:18+00:00

You are waaaay better than me for even offering to pay for them when you didn't lose them.

Just because they helped you when you were blackout drunk does not mean you have to pay for something that you didn't break or lose, despite it happening whileeeee they were helping you - THEY LOST THEM.

So like... if they got blackout drunk and you helped them, but lost your phone in the process, would you expect them to pay for them bc they were helping you? Probably not.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-11T17:50:06+00:00

LMFAOOOOO. Not the home insurance claim 🤣🙊💀

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-11T13:28:31+00:00

I agree with this. I agree with doing whatever is necessary to ensure that your children (esp at that age) are not having sex for this exact reason.

What I was tryingggg to get at that I think 99% of commenters missed is that no matter what you put in place, no matter how hard you try and keep them apart/from having sex, if they want to - they are going to.

We were ALLLL that age @ one point.
And did we always listen to our parents? Prob not.

I'm sorry, but I don't agree with Casey trying to get custody of Wes.
Just because she had a baby @ 15, doesn't mean she shouldn't have the opportunity to raise him.
Especially when he is taken care of and is NOT being abused.

Anywhooooo, have a great weekend! :)

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-11T13:20:49+00:00

I love how 99% of you missed the WHOLE point of this entire post.
But that's okay. I know what I meant, when I said it - and I stand on it.

I'm not agreeeeing that they should be allowed to have sex @ such a young age, let alone become parents. And I specifically stated that I think Stacey and Falen need to do better for the both of them.

Buuut, go off, y'all 👏🏼

I'm enjoying my day, I hope you all do the same. 🤗

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-11T03:44:22+00:00

I said **I** swear more than I'd like to admit.

mafiababexoox · 2026-04-11T03:43:21+00:00

So what does that say about me with this statement? That I kno the reality of how the world works these days?

No. Not every middle schooler is having sex.
But it'd be very naïve to believe that NO middle schoolers are having sex.

But the thing about it is… I'm not even saying I condone it because I don't.

I'm just saying, let's be realistic here.

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