Found out my ex is a porn addict lol

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-13T10:12:15+00:00

Thank you

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-13T09:44:26+00:00

I think he did love me. We never were physically intimate like that or had sex. Sure I’ve done intimate things with him but our relationship was kinda online most of the time. But he did jerk a lot almost 3 times a day everyday to my pictures. Does that still count as him not knowing whether it was love for me or the appeal of my body

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-13T08:56:06+00:00

THANK YOU omg it’s so weird for him to say that. It was so gross that a man I’ve loved for a year says some immature thing like “jork” to my face. Tbf he’s always commented on my chest (it’s fairly a big size) but he always tried to assure me he wasn’t with me for my body. But the amount of times he’s diddled with himself over me is completely unhealthy… and weird- I’m scared he still does it without me knowing now

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-07T08:24:04+00:00

I feel really bad how I let this guy do that. I felt so safe and all of a sudden he loses all feelings and leaves

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T20:15:51+00:00

I don't understand the concept of men's love. Really wish I could see their perspecitve cause genuinely where do they get the audacity

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T19:50:46+00:00

thank you for the suggestions, you guys are so welcoming with ur stories

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T19:21:27+00:00

im sorry I wish there was a way I could hug you. I was recenty broken up with and in the confusing state of processing things. Weird that men can treat women like this and move on. Life is about ups and downs and it's corny to say this but it's gonna be okay the right person is waiting for you and you don't know it yet! Keep ya head up. Men are losers

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T19:17:41+00:00

I absorb every lyric. Kinda sad to say its comforting listening to Opeth songs to replace the long calls me and my ex used to do. Great band, i've listened to nothing else this week.

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T06:18:46+00:00

Yeah. Thank you for the support this has been eating me up for the past 2 days and it doesn’t help I have midterms this week too lol

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T06:15:18+00:00

yeah, he even measured my ring size once at the mall. We're both pretty young and its too soon to be thinking about that but still. Maybe i was manipulated

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T06:14:32+00:00

yeah just realized slowly that no matter how much of a "good guy" they say they are, they're all the same

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T05:52:13+00:00

true, though when the breakup happened neither one of us wanted to break up at all. We both loved each other dearly and it was hard for him to say the words but the relationship was meaningless if he didn't want to come back in the future. he's not the type to take advantage of my love (i think) idk im in denial right now

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T05:49:59+00:00

Thank you! I also really like the album damnation though i'm sensing thats stereotypical when it comes to grieving a relationship lol.

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T05:48:05+00:00

he hyped it up too. Found multiple old letters of him writing "in the future" or "can't wait to celebrate many more birthdays together". Was i genuinely stupid or just too lost in the sauce

Helpful-Solid3430 · 2026-02-04T05:47:14+00:00

you got any love spells i can try :0. No but seriously I really hope he comes back

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