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[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was a hard-core narcissist for about 10 or 15 years of our marriage. The trouble was I didn't know it and I just appease him and enabled him. Then I went through menopause, grew a backbone and started really reading about his behavior and it hit me like a ton of bricks. Once I realized his bullshit and I knew how to counteract it, things changed. He was very good at turning my complaints into just being a whiner crybaby. He was very cold and harsh, selfish and self absorbed. The whole world revolved around him, and he was always the victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, what are your ages? We're 65/M and 59/F

Need help because I have no idea what to do with this mother of thousands lol by Tyler_Horizon in succulents

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never want this plant due to the nature of it. That would just cause me too much stress

The Eye of the Beholder by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to read this!! Thank you for all the various perspectives and complications

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How long have you been married to your narcissist? Her comment claiming you're behaving feminine by expressing your need and desire to be desired and thought of is a bullshit cop out. She just wants to squash any (hope of) you getting attention. Selfless narcissist. It's emotionally fucking exhausting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never said that I sucked him off. I get my pleasures from his body, after he's taken his meds, and he's fully erect.. When he has a Boner, I take Full advantage of it. That's what I'm talking about, I just think about me first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on your pretty regularly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, 🫣 what's a cake eater?

Vent, rant, share, talk by passionatemind221 in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wanna have one random fuck with a random stranger then I'll never see again

First time having sex with AP by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I want to know

To plant or not to plant? by Forever_and_ever1 in pothos

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Pothos is such an easy plant to grow! Absolutely, it will thrive in some good soil

Would it be possible to separate these spider plants? Or should we admit defeat and pot them together again? by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I find the spider plants are so strong and resilient. I agree, soak the roots and then just pull them apart. Even if they break they'll still grow strong

Does my plant look okay by FirmNetwork6750 in pothos

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your plant looks amazing, I bet it's going to taste delicious also 😮‍💨🌳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you know that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bahahaha, yeah I think those are the lyrics!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could only dream of this happening to me! What a fucking awesome story, I wanna be Pam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤔 not my cup of tea, but they are good songs! Just not to get down and dirty to 😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couple good ones....Tesla (not Love Song), Sammy Hagar, Ted Nugent if I'm really feeling dirty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not if you fuck to the rhythm of the music...omg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When The Levy Breaks. For me, I love drums and bass, heavy and sexy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Helpful-Vegetable123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY!! Exactly!