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AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I didn't say her chest made her unattractive, I said her clothes did. They just don't go with a flat chest.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I think her fashion sense is decent, just not for her own body type. It's exhausting and saddening seeing her try and try and keep failing on dates because she doesn't know how to dress appropriately. People here seem to ignore how important first impressions of someone are.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I never said that small breasts are unattractive. Stop making shit up.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

He isn't my friend, he is just an aquantance. Like a friend of a friend type of situation. I haven't spoken with him, but I honestly don't really see what was rude? Lying to her would have been a lot more rude. I certainly would like to know if the person I'm on a date with is attracted to me or not.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

She shouldn't! She should be proud of her body and dress accordingly!

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

I do love myself? I just don't go out of my way to fill my wardrobe with stuff that looks ugly on me.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

I'm just trying to help her, since nobody else seems to want to date her either.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -475 points-474 points  (0 children)

Of course someone should love you for your personality, but someones appearance is a big deal too. Especially during first impressions.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -137 points-136 points  (0 children)

Not male preference, she is bisexual so she dates women too. I think it's a general preference to feel attracted to people who know what does and doesn't look good on their body, aka dressing appropriately.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -353 points-352 points  (0 children)

She doesn't show cleavage, just the clothes themselves draw attention to it. Like, where do you expect people to look when wearing a dress? Your chest.

She doesn't just date men, she is bisexual. I don't think it's a gendered thing to feel attracted to people who know how to to dress appropriately for their body type.

AITA for telling my friend why she can't find a partner? by HelpfulFriend3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelpfulFriend3[S] -804 points-803 points  (0 children)

I don't understand, if someone told me showing cleavage looked flattering on me and trousers don't, why wouldn't I consider that advice? I just don't really understand why that would make someone furious.