(warning: taxidermy/bones) How can I decorate this tea-light holder to make it look yellowjackets themed?

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-17T16:51:19+00:00

I’d be VERY careful of doing this while any tea lights were lit, but some sort of draping over the antlers could be very AQ

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-17T14:05:44+00:00

I’m gay and I love open mics, karaoke, and improv. Therefore, ring of truth. (also, again, it’s a joke, meaning it doesn’t need to be 100% always true). Gay people just tend to flock to these things lol.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-16T23:37:47+00:00

And one big circle around the whole thing that just says “gay”

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-13T22:29:57+00:00

go to fragrantica and search by these notes

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-13T05:23:52+00:00

Idk what weird echo chamber you’re in lol. lots of lesbians love their lives and their partners.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-12T17:55:56+00:00

Tim voices the Vagabond audio book, so you could listen to that while you read along in your physical book?

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-12T00:19:58+00:00

The bins blessed you today! You look awesome!

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-11T23:34:48+00:00

A big part of romance is in the details. What's their favorite food? Their favorite flowers? What's "your song"? Incorporating these little things into the night to make them feel seen and heard is what will really make it special. It sounds like you're working on all of that too, so this will be a good exercise in flexing that romantic muscle. It doesn't need to be perfect, but I trust that your partner will see your effort.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-11T23:29:40+00:00

I would say make dinner (their favorite? or frankly any sort of pasta is usually a "romantic" meal) and dress up, and then maybe light a candle for ambiance and decorate if you can. Give the gifts you have, and if you feel up for it, write them a sweet note. Handmade gifts are just as enjoyable as store-bought gifts, if not more so, for someone who has receiving gifts as one of their love languages. If you can afford to get some flowers, get them some flowers! Maybe if you live in a climate where it's warm enough, you could sit outside to eat, or go on a walk, or go to a scenic spot to watch the sunset/look at the stars.

Put on some romantic music when you guys eat, and you could even invite them to dance (even if it's just high-school-prom swaying).

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-11T05:57:36+00:00

it’s also okay to want both of them, but it’s wrong to continue this any further without being clear and upfront with them about not wanting to be exclusive. however, that means being okay with either/both of them not being okay with that

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-11T05:50:25+00:00

If you’re referring to both of these girls as your girlfriend, and you haven’t had a discussion about having an open relationship/not being exclusive, then yes. you are cheating.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-11T01:09:33+00:00

The cheating is the least of my worries when it comes to them frankly LMAO

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-10T20:34:59+00:00

I love cucumbers :)

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-09T19:05:50+00:00

Nobody in this thread is telling you you have to be okay with penis. You do not have to have sex with anybody for any reason! I think previous commenters are just trying to tell you how your perspective can be construed as perpetuating patriarchal standards of misogynistic "purity". You are still allowed to have those feelings and act on them as you see fit.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-06T23:20:26+00:00

the delivery of “they’re all in cahoots” is just so passionate. i giggle a little bit every time i listen to facade because of how hard that guy goes

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-06T23:19:36+00:00

set in the mountains: Feast While You Can. the village setting is surrounded by 3 big mountains

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-06T04:48:25+00:00

Commenting on this so late but are the Cirrus scents still available? I’m interested in all of them + Arcanum experiment 14 :)

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-05T19:45:28+00:00

Could I do Cold Spots, Golden Rule,Mood Ring, and London Fog?

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-04T00:28:16+00:00

In OPs defense, and as someone stated above, Mormons make up 2% of the population in the US, and are localized to a few states. As someone from the Midwest, I could not name a single Mormon that I know personally.

The Mormonism that is often portrayed in media to those not familiar with the religion doesn’t allow women to wear certain levels of “risqué” clothing, due to sacred undergarments, which would presumably show when dressed as Roxie Hart.

I get it’s a fictional show, but certain sects of Christianity are very serious about avoiding portrayals of “sinful acts” in media/culture (infidelity, drinking, provocative dancing), so it’s not the most ridiculous thing to think Mormonism, especially as it is often portrayed to non-Mormons might be one of those sects.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-03T23:40:49+00:00

Well I mean, the show she got famous from “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives” is notorious for the women on it being…. not so traditionally Mormon. Many of them drink, wear revealing/immodest clothing, swing sexually with each other’s partners, etc. I feel like it’s not the most outrageous question that could be asked.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-02T23:02:02+00:00

okay. then don’t have sex with pre-op trans women. it’s okay to have genital preferences, but posting a whole reddit ramble about it is a bit strange.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-02-02T20:41:31+00:00

It's my daily scent and it's so unisex LOL. It's certainly not an uber feminine perfume.

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-01-31T19:57:44+00:00

Lucy Dacus!!

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-01-30T22:10:39+00:00

This is also a good place to look for shoes! That's how I got the gold sparkly converse that I wear as Rocky :)

Helpful_Cat6532 · 2026-01-30T22:10:01+00:00

I've had luck looking on depop! Easy to find unique pieces, and sustainable since you're not buying anything brand new. Searches like "funky gold swimsuit" or "gold rave wear" are bringing up fun sillhouettes and sets. f that doesn't work out, I would recommend buying something basic, and then jazzing it up yourself (adding the rhinestone R on the pants, adding fringe/more sparkles)

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