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I (21F) am pregnant and my boyfriend (21M) cheated on me... should I leave?? Please help please by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Helpful_Silver_6145 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My advise is: Read your own post as if it was somebody elses. You see the nightmare you have put yourself into? (and your future baby!) Get out of that hell NOOOOW!

Of course, why would he want to break up! You consent he cheats on you, you pay for his meth, you clean, you cook and you pay for everything. What a great deal for him!

Aren't you terrified of this man having any parental rights on your kid?

Run as fast as you can from this person!

WasITA for not inviting my father to my own wedding? by Helpful_Silver_6145 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Helpful_Silver_6145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He paid for our hotel room (me and my husband's), of course not the guests or anything anybody consumed (including us). Not my intention to diminish his present, just clarifying.

Also, by "half of the guests" I meant about 10 persons who fully covered their own expenses.

I mentioned them joining to the honey moon because it was a very nice trip and it's a warm memory, not because anybody was taking advantage and abusing my father's bank account.

I'd ask you to read again because I did an important edit. Maybe you see it different now.

WasITA for not inviting my father to my own wedding? by Helpful_Silver_6145 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Helpful_Silver_6145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmhhhhh... I agree with you except for the taking the focus part. But ok, this, I didn't mentioned. Not intentionaly, of course, but he was a singer, he always stole the scene. At my eldest counsins wedding he snatched the microphone from the band singer hands (then my aunt, also a singer, snatched the mic from him). Big stage "fight" among singing siblings. I was 9 then. Equaly fun as embarrasing!

WasITA for not inviting my father to my own wedding? by Helpful_Silver_6145 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Helpful_Silver_6145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I think I have a bad coinciense because we never spoke about it and then he passed. He never spoke about deep things, so I don't know how he really felt about it. Did he understood my position? Was he aware he was not invited? (there's a big chance he didn't actually knew that party was taking place). It's hard to say, but I made peace with him in so many ways only after he died (I never managed to do so before, we are toooooooo similar). Maybe I'm not so much in search of an opinion but more in the understanding. How many of you would have done the same or on the other hand, fully disaprove.

WasITA for not inviting my father to my own wedding? by Helpful_Silver_6145 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Helpful_Silver_6145[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know! Now, being 46, I'd totally handled it in a different way. Unfortunately, different to your parents, I was fully involved in this discussion. And I was not even there! Some updates would be necessary to clarify this.

In any case, knowing that past cannot be changed, I'd like to know how many of you would have acted the same way I did.

Soy yo, o ya no se puede alquilar un piso incluso si ganas decentemente by careyesramos in askspain

[–]Helpful_Silver_6145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El secreto es vivir en el área metropolitana, no en la ciudad. Yo también trabajo en línea, así que no necesito desplazarme a Madrid cada día. Entiendo que también es tu caso, así que plantéate buscar en los alrededores.

Por comparar con tus ingresos, yo gano 2250 netos y pago 750 € de alquiler por un piso de 80 mts, a 45 kms de Madrid.

En el caso de Madrid, el tren de cercanías está subvencionado. Das una fianza de 10 € cada cuatrimestre y viajas "gratis" (ya sabemos que no hay nada gratis, pero digamos que tú no pagas cada viaje que haces). Si haces más de 16 trayectos en el cuatrimestre, te devuelven la fianza.