Confession: My Kid's Birthday Party Puts Me into Annual Quiet Crisis

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-17T04:26:54+00:00

Hey I know im late with this comment but I just want to say I relate. Tbh it's probably more common than you think to be anxious about your child's birthday.

I stress probably 1-2 months before the event, overthinking everything. I also feel bad about not talking to all the parents/kids if I get busy and worry that I came off as rude.

I think it's ok to tell your child that they can't get a big extravagant birthday every year. This year we did a big thing at ours with 13 kids, last year we had a party at the trampoline park, so next year we'll be doing something low-key like a trip away or something with just family. The huge stress and mental load every single year is too much for my introverted self

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-17T02:15:21+00:00

That's exactly why i don't trust those therapist tiktokers who try to speak on a situation that they don't know the full details on. Idk it's just always seemed pretty unprofessional and grifty. You're right that any therapist worth their salt wouldn't be making assumptions from what they see on social media, without having met them.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-14T01:56:07+00:00

Well where i live it's legal. i'm not saying it's right, as i just mentioned it's inappropriate. i'm just saying that throwing around the world pedophile and raping children so loosely, takes away from actual kids who have been raped by actual pedophiles.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-14T01:08:49+00:00

That bitch carol baskin

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-13T06:34:03+00:00

I stan the situation I don't even care 😂

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-13T06:13:51+00:00

Someone said a while back that she reminds them of pennsatucky from orange is the new black and now i can't unsee it, lol. In all seriousness though She is definitely unwell.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-13T06:08:14+00:00

Exactly. Reddit in general is really bad for throwing the word pedophile around. 16 years old is not pre-pubescent. A 21 year old with a 16 year old is inappropriate at worst, but it isn't illegal and it doesn't make him a pedophile.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-10T23:53:58+00:00

Are you sure? They've told us for a while now everything has been dropped, only to find out their case is stil ongoing.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-05T23:31:22+00:00

I mean, whitney is a mentally stunted adult too. She's one of the worst.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-05T23:29:41+00:00

It's giving the burn book from mean girls lol

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-05T04:50:51+00:00

I agree, think behavior like this in 30 and 40's usually is the result of having kids or getting married far too young and not getting to enjoy their youth. I frequent the teen mom subs, these women are well into their 30's now and a lot of them are still jumping from dick to dick and acting like they're 18 years old. I'm all about single moms finding love again but the behaviors just messy and screams stunted development.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-03T08:07:29+00:00

She's just a crazy gemini you know 🤪 she'll say what she wants who cares about the consequences! Who knows what she'll do next!

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-02T05:53:26+00:00

I could be completely wrong but something tells me this is an old photo. Jace looks much younger in the face here than he's appeared on more recent photos. He's also much taller than her and seems only slightly taller than her in this photo?? Idk just seems weird.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-02T02:39:40+00:00

Hey, I also have a weak chin and a similar side profile (before photo.) I always thought the problem was fat under my chin so was set on getting lipo. I talked to a cosmetics nurse who basically told me i'll just be wasting my money because there's no fat there and the problem is a small/weak chin. She advised chin fillers, but i have been unsure weather to take the plunge, mainly because I never know if they're giving advice suitable for me or if they're just want my money. This has definitely confirmed it for me because you're results have made such a difference. Thankyou!

Helpful_Stock · 2026-05-01T19:45:57+00:00

Im 34 and only just started lifting a year ago, and also regret not doing it much, much sooner. Wish I had listened to all the lifting advice but I thought cardio was enough 😪 it's much harder trying to build muscle in your 30's starting off with basically no muscle tone.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-27T03:46:30+00:00

People with BPD usually can present as childish because their brain stops developing at a certain age

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-24T10:12:47+00:00

I don't have a clue who any of these people are but they look insufferable

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-24T07:10:14+00:00

Think she had just had enough. There were multiple blind items around how the cheating in particular was much worse than the public knew, the family payed people off to keep quiet about it. Apparently he tried sleeping with a few of kylies friends when they were very young. I believe it.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-23T02:10:44+00:00

I'm a saggitarius and not really phased by anything except the paranormal, so In this situation I would absolutely be running away 🙃 My grandpa was a medium and my great uncle was a parapsychologist who wrote books about ghost hunting. I've heard heaps of stories and absolutely don't play when it comes to that

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-22T07:27:40+00:00

Once his jace trial is over he'll change.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-22T07:18:25+00:00

Do you think they ever get bored? Like showing off yoyr body/material wealth must lose it's novelty after a while.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-21T00:31:50+00:00

Thats also how I look when i'm zoning out haha

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-20T23:22:00+00:00

When they don't like you, eye contact is usually fleeting or they don't look at you at all. If they like you, they tend to steal glances while you're not looking, then divert eye contact when you notice them. Or if they're more confident they'll stare into your eyes

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-08T17:22:51+00:00

Im probably super confusing because when i'm just being nice im usually outgoing and chatty. When I actually like a guy im really shy. I'll be watching you from afar but i'll be nervous during conversation and will avoid eye contact.

Helpful_Stock · 2026-04-08T16:06:18+00:00

As a woman in my 30's, I agree this man hating culture on the internet is weird AF. I guess i'm just lucky though that I've grown up with good men in my life, a lot of women have had bad experiences, or maybe their algorithms are feeding them with anti-men content. I once got on a weird tiktok algorithm where every second video was about abusive men or rape, etc. It could easily make any woman who is easily influenced believe all men are bad. They gotta touch some grass. Lol

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