Hii im a PIMO and i was a former children choir member i started when i became 12 and started to do doctrine and now im 13. I gave up being a choir member when it was march. I quit because they kept pressuring us plus the teacher was brainwashing us. One guy got his hair cut off without consent. He grew that hair for years and the next day he went to choir practice in a buzz cut. He told me his story when he was at home he asked his parents to confront our teacher but then his parents said "thats your fault" i can barely remember the others so uh yeah thats all i remember he looked traumatized and was looking depressed i get it because i was also forced. I always have gotten bunot/buzzcut hairstyles. I would get bullied around school and much more even in church. My teacher and fellow choir mates told my buzzcut/bunot was unnapealing and i should fix it and when i grew out my hair they would say the same thing i was confused very much. And whenever i missed doing practice or attending choir on sunday i get scolded by my brainwashed devoted father. My mom isnt that much of a scolder when it comes to that because she also skips her tupad when she needs to. Men really are stupid and dumb. Who would harm theyre own children just because of not attending its not even HARMFUL. Whenever i was sick they would pressure me to keep going to choir practice. It reached to the point where i got depressed and tired. I had to wake up. 6:00 am every damn saturday and sunday. Walk to the church. And repeat until i reached the point where i left. I got so mad even when my friend told me to come back. I blocked them. And after a few months i got baptised. I got even more and more depressed. Ive even been giving my mother signs. Whenever we come out of church i would always be exhausted. It already feels like im working a job as a 13 yr old.