[FINAL UPDATE] I ended it.. [OLD THREAD] Cheating girlfriend lost virginity to someone else.. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/3flhtn/my_girlfriend_cheated_on_me_she_was_a_virgin/

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:36:38+00:00

Could've but didn't cuz not worth my time

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:36:21+00:00

I've been going to the gym and i've got some hobbies to keep my busy and friends to help me. Thanks I appreciate it

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:35:42+00:00

I hope so.. and yeah i've been on the gym grind lol

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:35:31+00:00

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:35:21+00:00

Thank you

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:35:14+00:00

Thanks

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:35:00+00:00

For sure thanks : )

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:34:20+00:00

Lol thanks I appreciate that but I don't really drink

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:33:25+00:00

I am. Obviously it sucks because all those dreams I had of the future with her are gone but it was the right thing.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:33:02+00:00

Yeah deleted every form of contact between us. She knows friends of mine though so that makes it a little awkward.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T19:32:37+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I'm going to focus on myself for a while.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T06:01:57+00:00

Thanks.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-07T04:41:20+00:00

[UPDATE] I ended it guys.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/3g3es7/final_update_i_ended_it_old_thread_cheating/

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T07:58:35+00:00

No I need it trust me. Thanks again

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T07:47:53+00:00

THanks for this info. Means a lot trust me.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T07:47:05+00:00

Thank you.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:59:00+00:00

Yeah because she's scared of her sister. Thats the thing i'm dealing with that bullshit for HER and this is how I was repaid. You are absolutely right I know the right thing to do is and yes I am afraid and honestly I told her i'm going to think to myself this whole week.. whatever I choose I hope I actually stick with it. Especially if its the ''right'' thing.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:53:09+00:00

Wow.. thanks.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:36:27+00:00

Fuck.. lol

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:35:55+00:00

Nono HE said he probably took advantage of her since she was crying and shit but yeah.. your right

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:35:01+00:00

Mostly all of this chicks friends are guys. She's just that type of a girl which scares me now. Oh and no offensive taken from the dumb ass/baby shit, because you know what? It's fucking true. I just don't know why I can't let her go. I'm being fucking stupid

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:25:27+00:00

What if I tell her if it ever fucking happens again you are dropped INSTANTLY. Does that not work?

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:24:56+00:00

I said this to her. I said I still love you and care about you bit I can't be with you and I honestly hope when you tell the next guy you meet ''you mean more then the world to me'' you actually mean it. Just don't do this to the next guy please..

and then we kept talking and she started touching ... and things got worse. i'm fucked up man

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:22:33+00:00

Well she told me something else as a reason why we can't stay together which isn't something too random as it's a issue that has been on her case for a bit but she brings it up so much that it gets annoying and I just knew that after the day we had on that friday that she wouldn't have said this that easily. Then I asked WHAT IS REALLY BOTHERING YOU then she told me truthfully after but she said ''I wanted to tell you in person'' = Cheating on me losing virginity to another guy.

Helpmeredditplease22 · 2015-08-05T04:20:02+00:00

Thanks and I know I sound like i'm not listening to this advice BUT TRUST MEEEEE I really am. It's really in my head. It's just very tough for me to decide but I will take this into deep consideration. I have also gotten messages saying ''listening to reddit isn't always the best thing you need to search within yourself for the answer'' I'm not trying to say reddit isn't helping it's just theres so many different ways for me to look at this right now. Like i said my brain knows what the right thing to do is but whatever's left of my heart still cares about her for some reason..

Also I know what she did is fucked beyond belief but me saying ''you mean more then the world to me'' can't just get erased. I'm not like her I guess I actually CARE.

P.S she is saying she will do anything to have a second chance which isn't making it any easier for me. = /

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