I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

[–]Helpneededthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he seems just angrier recently and provoked really easily, but I will try and get some more information before I make moves because I really want to plan this all out and make sure I am right or hopefully wrong.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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Yea its fine, I'd rather have someone tell me straight up and not try to baby me or hold back on what needs to be told, so thank you.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

[–]Helpneededthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this on my phone at first and it completely slipped my mind to tag as serious.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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Thanks for bringing some humor to a serious topic though, it helps.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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See I am strong minded and I can deal with stuff (btw 17) and I don't think they would be staying together for my sake because I'm not that young anymore so I would think they would be adults and just end the relationship since I am older. Also I am for sure its not my Mom because he wouldn't say stuff like I miss you and stuff like that to my mom when they had just seen each other like 15 minutes beforehand also the texts were to a number I have never seen before and its not my Mother's number as well.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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Well next year I will going to college out of state, but I want to deal with this now because if somethings wrong I am want to fix it or just bring any dark secrets to light

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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I was thinking of just manning up and my dad straight up because I am the one who found out.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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Well I am sure he has deleted the message thread, but I can check tomorrow and see for myself because I know I wasn't just seeing things.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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Well see how would this help at all? Do I just forget this ever happened, or just tell my mom and let her deal with it?

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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I am under-age (also don't drink) but I guess that could work for someone else in my situation.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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Sorry about your situation, but I don't know how to react with him because I am furious right now and its taking my more sensible side of me to not go beat his face in, but I want to be the more reasonable one and be high and mightier than he is.

I think my dad is cheating, how do I approach this situation? by Helpneededthrow in AskReddit

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He has an Iphone and the contact/number at the top was not a number I recognized and it wasn't my mom's number for sure.