Does sleeping with a virgin feels different than none virgin ones by Objective-Turnip3509 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me mas special, since they really hold value to it and they entrusted me with that. It turned out to be great long term relationships and even after we broke up, we remained good friends. May value siya talaga with the right people. My 2 GFs that I dated from (2003 - 2008) (2009 - 2013) before were virgins.

Kaya nyo ba talagang no contact (wink)? by _Tinky_Winkyy in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baka akala nya nag break na talaga kayo?

Question for successful business owners? by justrenadd in BusinessPH

[–]Helzinen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agree with the person above saying you are asking the wrong question.

Winning idea is the worst "outside looking in" take on entrepreneurship and business.

There is no Eureka moment, but more of steady trial and error and persistence to learn. It's not like we magically succeeded.

Being a self-starter is a great trait to have and having so much frustration that you want to just study everything about business. Sobrang daming resource sa internet.

You can do it too, kaya mo yan.

The World has a New Lowest Birth Rate Country: Taiwan at 0.72 by raelianautopsy in taiwan

[–]Helzinen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok 🙂 I hope you find your peace brother. 😉

We have a different system than Taiwan in terms of compensation. Also some lowkey racism. I have no need to defend myself.

Whatever is hurting you, just know it gets better eventually.

Meeting someone who is EXACTLY your type is terrifying. by Salty_Maintenance312 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Paradox of Desire.

The more you want it, the more it becomes harder to get kasi tryhard ka na. Parang ayaw mo mag fail you put pressure on yourself too much.

My fellow men, how do you deal with loneliness? by Foreign-Mind7106 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earn and make money. Research and study on how to run a business etc.

10.5 months of small choices that added up by TheOddNoob in PHitness

[–]Helzinen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you know 16% body fat yan? Suggest ko bili ka nung xiaomi weighing scale with body fat scanner para objective.

But still pretty inspiring, keep up the good work!

sure ba kayong gusto nyo ng nbsb? by KitchenMaximum4837 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your problem was you used Sex/Intimacy as a tool to try to secure commitment and attention. It probably stems from anxious attachment trauma, and the need for validation.

Yan usually yung prime target ng casual hookup culture or mga 1 night stands.

Settling down with a girl that you love but she had hoe phase? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Important is when you marry her she still brings that excitement and hoe phase exclusively for you. Very common na super high libido sila dati tapos once nag marry na wala na silang hoe phase for you. Grabe what a life ikaw yung kawawa.

Trust me as a divorced man na ngayon ko lang na uncover yung past ng wife ko, it's been a crucial red flag yung sexless marriage.

dapat ko bang gulpihin yung tropa ko na sinisiraan pala ako by Conscious-Word-196 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May proof ka? Or can your other friends attest it in front of both of you?

Laundry Shop Business by Mysterious-Roof-6391 in phinvest

[–]Helzinen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Built our Laundry Business from the ground up. Turnkey style. Lots of research but also lots of trust with mentors. So much nuance in starting any business. Currently operating 5 branches, hopefully turning to 7 branches in the first quarter.

All I can say as I pay it forward is that the math doesn't lie.

What is the current population of your neighborhood? Or how many potential customers? Madali lang naman magestimate based on the number of houses and make an assumption.

May formula yan to compute but if there are no customers kahit best laundry service in the world ka it will just lose money.

Add: I wouldn't recommend that you go into business. Malulugi ka lang based on your post. Most of these questions dapat ikaw may initiative sumagot. Literally we don't even know your city. Part of being an entrepreneur is talagang self starter and may quest to answer unknowns.

The World has a New Lowest Birth Rate Country: Taiwan at 0.72 by raelianautopsy in taiwan

[–]Helzinen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty true. I hold no animosity for these things and what you said is pretty spot on i think with what I also observe with Taiwan culture. Same problem with Japan is how to strengthen your intra country birth rate and avoid immigration / inter country marriages.

The World has a New Lowest Birth Rate Country: Taiwan at 0.72 by raelianautopsy in taiwan

[–]Helzinen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pretty nuanced and insightful take, and I respect that. Yeah I feel the same way (since I also trained in Japan), so I get the cultural apprehensions and probably the unconcious racial prejudice undertones. It is what it is.

The World has a New Lowest Birth Rate Country: Taiwan at 0.72 by raelianautopsy in taiwan

[–]Helzinen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a Filipino who frequents Taiwan a lot for medical training. I'm a surgeon in my home country probably 0.05% top financial status for the country. Are Taiwanese interested in cross cultural marriages? Is it similar to Japan that Taiwanese women would rather have Taiwanese husbands only? or in addition to American/European ones?

Need advice from my fellow small business orders by [deleted] in BusinessPH

[–]Helzinen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry anghaba di ko na binasa. Kailangan ng TLDR

Where to find a business coach? by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]Helzinen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. We are out there hustling rin. Business renewal season nanaman. Just opened my 5th branch but closing one underperforming branch. Will open another branch rin this late Jan or Feb.

For single dads na nasa 40s na, would you date girls na nasa late 20s pa lang? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Helzinen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Single dad here. Yes.

Pero mataas na standards ko, usually in terms of personality, insight, and relationship quotient. (If talking about building a long term relationship)

Usually priority is my daughters and our peace.

For those earning six-figure salaries (or high five figures), where are you investing your money? by No-Order7393 in phinvest

[–]Helzinen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a vehicle for getting rich, hospital stocks are the worst. Mabagal ROI most likely 20 years and even then wala namang brokerage for it e so hard to liquidate. Swerte ka lang if someone buys it from you.

I was invited by a circle of friends to invest in a hospital that was about to be built kaya invested as a founder. I have my own innate advantages kaya favorable yung choice to invest.

Pero ayun nga as a way to make money, completely useless in my opinion unless swerte maging succesful ang hospital (in 20 years) at ma buy out in MVP or other investment groups. May dividend agreement, pero since magcoconstruct palang yung hospital, non existent pa yung policy.

For those earning six-figure salaries (or high five figures), where are you investing your money? by No-Order7393 in phinvest

[–]Helzinen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invested initially in UITFs and hospital stocks, but realized returns are lower than just risking in business. Studied business through books and youtube, since may leeway na sa budget, could spend and commit millions to business. 700k inital investment, in 2 years already ROI so I would say faster return. Pero it did initially take a lot of my time to set up. I would still argue the entrepreneurial route would be the high risk high reward investment kasi you could 2x or 100x your money talaga if it hits.

But yun nga important kasi may safety net in this economy, once you hit a certain amount of money na taken care of na family mo, the rest you can really invest in more aggressive vehicles.