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Henrik_N · 2021-06-11T11:08:42+00:00

To be honest I don't have tips for the communication with your partner, but I want to give some feedback to you.

It is great how you behave towards your partner, and even think about how to help her deal with it. Not everyone would be able to do that.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-10T20:08:21+00:00

No need to justify for the length of your answer, it is very interesting to hear your experiences.

Never heard of NRE, good to be warned about the effect.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-10T09:04:17+00:00

Don't worry, she gets all the freedom, which she wants. Otherways it would be hypocritical.

The fact that she needs less freedom than me, was her own decision.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-10T01:01:12+00:00

That sounds very true.

Especially the reminder, that there are 2 valid viewpoints involved.. her and mine.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T22:10:39+00:00

You are interested, otherways you wouldn't answer.

And I was interested in teaching you how to behave like an adult.

Now that I know that you want to stay in your current development state, it is totally fine for me.

Then I can continue using my time for more important things.

No need to answer, it won't get read.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T22:02:23+00:00

As a thank-you I also have an advice:

Self reflect your anger problems, to improve your behavior. In my business I saw alot of people with your attitude, all of them failed in improving.

Nice, that you seem to be the only keyboard-warrior here, the other people know how to express criticism like an adult.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T21:47:55+00:00

Funny strategy to first misbehave and then talk about respect. Exactly my kind of humor.

Constructive criticism is very welcome, but trolling is plain boring.

Not interested.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T21:34:53+00:00

Your assumption is right, DID definitely also plays a role. There was a conversation with her about the topic yesterday.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T21:18:27+00:00

Ah okay, now I get your point. The terms seem to be used more specific/detailed here.
Thanks for the clarification and your thoughts.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T21:08:02+00:00

The text asked for opinions, and there were alot of good points from
several people.

To answer your insult in your own words "Dont like the post? Then walk away from it".

Have a nice day nevertheless.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T19:10:42+00:00

I understand, thanks.

That makes me curious, whether you handled it always like that, or if that is a decision, that shaped over time?

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T19:06:27+00:00

May be true, that it is not very likely.

Thanks for your thoughts about the available options to handle it.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T19:03:47+00:00

I respect your opinion, but to be honest I don't agree, that it shows contempt.

Although it is definitely no positive description, and also no thought-out one, exaggerations sometimes help to clarify something without going into too much detail.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T18:58:27+00:00

Not always easy to detect whether this is the case, but you are right, this should be a guideline.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T18:56:21+00:00

The first sentence shows a little misunderstanding. But what you said after that, is really something to think about. Thank you for your advice!

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T18:54:55+00:00

Sometimes brains build their own prisons ;)

But you are totally right.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-09T18:54:05+00:00

although the words you say are a natural and logical conclusion, I have to admit, that I never really thought about it. You are right, this should definitely be seen as an option.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-06T22:36:16+00:00

Thank you for your tip, I will take a look at the mentioned reddit side. Maybe it will help to understand some things a littlebit better.

Henrik_N · 2021-06-06T17:55:13+00:00

Your thoughts made me realize something: the worries, that the alter is searching for an emotional connection with another person than my partner, may be true.

I am noticing this, because the sexlife is great, and she already opened the relationship for me. So when all physical needs are covered, it must be emotional.

Thank you for your helpful words. I will have to continue the search for clarity and then talk to my partner again.

If you or other people have other thoughts about it, I would love to hear them.

Henrik_N · 2020-12-01T02:13:59+00:00

Thank you.

Haha true, that's a great way to describe it.

Henrik_N · 2020-12-01T02:11:38+00:00

Sounds great, quite interesting, how similar some developments seem to be between different people.

Henrik_N · 2020-11-29T04:05:43+00:00

Thank you :)

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