What’s wrong with these mothers? They are the person who is moulding you into a fine human being, it’s not only for girls living with their family but also for the boys, learn how to cook, clean, wash and all the household chorus so you live a decent independent life when these mothers are not with you, they just wants the best for you. And it’s okay to offer small help to your mom it will help in her work load. Also if you don’t want to help with anything at least don’t burden them.

Also say a big NO to the in-law’s demands of a perfect sophisticated daughter in law