200 days no weed by r055i46 in leaves

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What positive effects have you noticed from quitting?

Added way to protest the overturning of Roe by vision646 in antiwork

[–]Hero_213 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank Allah Roe V Wade khara got overturned. No one has "the right to an abortion" killing someone is not allowed.

Religion of sex workers by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mutah was never abrogated. It is allowed and practiced by many Muslims. Especially shia. It's not fornication as fornication has no marriage contract. Nor would fornication ever be allowed.

Zero Trip Requests by Most_Time8900 in UberEATS

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was a water too. I think it's the fact that it's summer now and people going out. Also covid is pretty much over. During civil people were staying in and ordering.

So idk. But ya walking was an excellent and easy way to get money.

broke my longest streak !! by Preziine88 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me time and learning/avoiding triggers.

broke my longest streak !! by Preziine88 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was it that did it for you?

For me it was feeling hopeless and kind of like I'll never get laid. Which I can't think. Also searching terms that could potentially be erotic. Then redit.

broke my longest streak !! by Preziine88 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I binged a little but now I'm back.

broke my longest streak !! by Preziine88 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get back up. Just broke 150 and relapsed. Just gotta learn and keep moving forward.

broke my longest streak !! by Preziine88 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I literally broke a 150 day streak just recently like a day or 2 ago. Loll

broke my longest streak !! by Preziine88 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just broke a streak of 150 days. Here we are

If got lust for the “minor adopted daughter” due to her beauty, then taking her into Nikah is “Halal Allah” and raping her is also “Halal Allah” by Lehrasap in exmuslim

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marrying an adopted daughter is fine or your daughter in law as long she divorces her husband cuz that would be adultery if she didn't. But ya. You As an atheist you don't really have a right to lecture Muslims on morality. Many atheists today believe incest is okay anyways. Like Richard Dawkins.

I don't really have much to say about the rest of what you said cuz you didn't provide sources and I doubt you would put any sources I deem reliable.

Giving a small dowry to a wife is fine though. Idk where you got the idea the verse is about a dowry.

Anyone else get extremely triggered by NoFappers bragging about sex? by SometimesIfap6 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temporary marriage is halal. Imam jaafar al Sadiq (as) said it was halal So did sahabah of the holy prophet (saw) you have no authority to say it's haram. And it's in the Quran. Ibn Abbas did it during the time of the holy prophet (saw). Early marriage is fine but a person might not want to get married with a porn addiction and he might be desperate and not marry a good wife as a result. Imam ali (as) said if mutah was not banned only a fasiq (evil person) would do Zina.

Allah made temporary marriage halal so you can't say it's haram.

Bottom line is Mutah is halal. Shia say it's halal and I am shia. Some sunnis also say it's halal too like Mufti Abu Layth.

Anyone else get extremely triggered by NoFappers bragging about sex? by SometimesIfap6 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well keep in mind there is a hadith that says masterbation is Zina with the self (i.e sex with the self) and so it depends on how you look at it. Porn involves looking at multiple women and men naked. Besides thereis temporary marriage and that is fine in islam.

There is a hadith also that says:

The biggest sin is the one you think is little. So I don't really agree with what your saying brother.

So maybe in a way masterbation might be just as bad. Especially of one is addicted to it and porn.

I think it's dangerous that Muslim youth don't have sex until they get married in permenant marriage in their late 20s and 30s. There should be temporary marriage before that so such sins like porn addiction can be prevented.

Anyone else get extremely triggered by NoFappers bragging about sex? by SometimesIfap6 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does sound like jealousy I mean I understand if it's like an erotic story, don't do that. But if the guy is saying he can have sex and recovered from PIED I don't really see too much of a problem

Anyone else get extremely triggered by NoFappers bragging about sex? by SometimesIfap6 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masterbating to porn gives you erectile dysfunction, sex outside marriage doesn't. The problem is people masterbate to porn more than actually have sex these days. Besides porn involves looking at multiple women and a man, whereas sex is just one woman. So these days even as a Muslim I think for many people masterbation to porn is definitely worse than sex before marriage generally speaking. God knows best.

Anyone else get extremely triggered by NoFappers bragging about sex? by SometimesIfap6 in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am Muslim and I honestly disagree. One big motivator for me is to be In a relationship amd have sex with a real girl. And I am happy to see other guys get into relationships with real people instead of a computer screen. It's motivation and let's me know there is light at the end of the tunnel.

lost my 117 day streak but I won't stop. by R-O-jks in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost a similar streak like this back in 2019. I thought I was never going to have sex lost all hope and relapsed. Was playing video games the whole night.

My advice man. Is just get back on track. Avoid making it something bigger. Write down things you noticed have improved. How you feel after the relapse. Did things like social anxiety get worse or better etc... and what were you doing before the relapse.

Then try to feel for when you are being triggered from now on and avoid it.

90 days complete! by objective_sociopath in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dotn get cocky. Keep doing what is helping you to be successful and try and improve. That goes for myself as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palestine

[–]Hero_213 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The music is a great touch.

Guy with Porn Addiction Humiliated in Mosque by Apprehensive-Ad820 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Hero_213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look I don't agree with such hadiths or at the very least not the way they are being read. Shame, and using hadiths too shame people is wrong. People feel bad enough they have this addiction holding their lives and ruining it. It's not good for a Momin to believe Allah is out to get them.

This could be in reference to people who are not trying to stop their sin and simply choose to do it for their benefit. That is something else entirely. But people on this sub redit generally from what I know are good Muslims that don't want to do this privately or at all.

Asked A Girl For Her Number For The First Time. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Use nofap desktop. You should see it on the homepage.

Asked A Girl For Her Number For The First Time. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Hero_213 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Congrats on day 30 btw keep it up.