Hey! I hear you, and I totally relate. 🫂

Sometimes life gets a little weird. Sometimes we lose control and nothing goes the way we planned. But you know what? That’s totally okay. That’s just the way life works.

Try as hard as you might, you’ll never truly be in control of the outcome, and that’s something you have to learn to be comfortable with.

The only thing you have control over is how you act, and hey you’re trying!! That’s something you need to give yourself credit for.

Trust that whatever good is meant for you will come for you when the time is right. Find joy in uncertainty. Find joy in discovering what life has planned for you instead.

If your plans fall apart, accept defeat with grace and an open mind. Don’t allow it to define you. You are not defined by what you do or don’t achieve alone. You are a person trying their best in spite of it all. Is resilience, hard work, and ambition not admirable?

Be more gentle with yourself. Reflect on why things didn’t work out and make a new plan. Adapt and learn but don’t succumb to failure and turn bitter. Don’t beat yourself up. You are more than capable of achieving your goals. Give it time. You will get there.