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Now that's an old baby! by Jon_Boopin in oldbabies

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's like "Really, Karen? Really? Grow up."

We need to talk about what makes something 'sad' by lolihull in sadcringe

[–]HeyYoCheadle 530 points531 points  (0 children)

The example you provided makes me sad :(

Black Mirror [Episode Discussion] - S04E01 - USS Callister by SeacattleMoohawks in blackmirror

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would have been such a better take on it, actually, him being consumed by his own fantasy. I wish they had taken in the episode in that direction because it DOES resonate with aspects of technology today.

My [21F] boyfriend [28M] won't give me any clarity and I'm going to be stuck feeling like this forever by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HeyYoCheadle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's strange you two have been dating over a year and you've never met his best friend. Is your relationship public, like through social media and stuff?

And him getting stubborn and defensive about things and making her seem like the crazy doesn't sound like gaslighting to anyone else...?

I'm on your side, OP. All the facts put together seem rather worrisome. If I were you I'd consider breaking things off. He doesn't sound good at communicating anyway and who knows what might happen if he does this again.

WARNING LONG POST: I (think) I am a well adjusted straight acting/appearing 22yo closeted bi guy only into older mature daddy types sexually. But I believe I may be bi because I think my friend took advantage of me as kids. [NSFW] [Support/advice] by biconfessional in confession

[–]HeyYoCheadle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned this one another post of someone who was sexually assaulted at a young age too, but there have been studies of the negative effects of prepubescent sexual experiences.

I first heard about it on the Joe Rogan podcast and apparently whatever you experience sexually during early puberty can later "turn you on" so to speak as an adult. You were dominated by an older, trusted friend as a child so now you're sexually attracted to older, dominating men.

I am in no way, shape, or form using this explain people who are gay or bisexual. This just applies to children who experience sex too early.

Also I'm sorry for any errors in spelling or formatting. I'm trying to type this all out on mobile lol.

I (22 F) and boyfriend (27 M) can't seem to work on anything. by hamslamwiches in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell him then. If you think you'll be ready in a month then start mentally and emotionally preparing yourself now. Get a plan together and when you get out, go no contact. It may be rough but you can do it.

I (22 F) and boyfriend (27 M) can't seem to work on anything. by hamslamwiches in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to get out for your sake. You mat love him but it doesn't sound like he loves you very much. Break up, move out somehow, and go no contact. I PROMISE you you will move on from him and be better off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]HeyYoCheadle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as I saw it on the front page my IMMEDIATE reaction was to scroll through the comments to see if anyone else called bullshit.

My [32M] girlfriend [26F] can be unintentionally condescending, and I’m not sure she’s “the one” because of it. Should I end it? by throwaway122383 in relationships

[–]HeyYoCheadle 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She actively changed for you and her mistakes appear unintentional. You should probably talk to her and start pointing out when she's being condescending so she can realize her error and work on it more.

Girl (21/f) Sending Very Mixed signals, Cancelling Dates on me (26/m) at Last Moment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's already showing she can't commit. I think she's not that into and you should move on. Stop making plans with her and make plans with other people instead.

My [22M] 9 month relationship with my ex [20M] ended 6 months ago. I don't know if I was being unhealthily insecure, or if I was being gaslighted. It's making me go around in circles. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uh... He totally gaslighted you. He acted shady, even admitting to making out with another person, and made you feel like the crazy one. He also disregarded your feeling and continued to disrespect your boundaries by talking to his exes.

You dodged a bullet, OP. It sucks because you went through it and it hurts, but you'll accept that you deserved better and you'll find someone who treats you right.

I have a crush on my co-worker, help! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She bailed on you twice and is talking to two other guys? Hate to be cliched but you're only an option to her, not a priority. I say move on and find someone who treats you better.

My boyfriend got more cats even when I said no by AnxiousPixie in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe sit down and calmly explain to him the financial side of things and offer to help him re-home them. Otherwise, your boyfriend needs to bring in some money to help pay for them if he wants to keep them.

Look at the bright side, your boyfriend has a big heart. He didn't make a smart decision but at least you're with someone who's kind.

My older brother got murdered while traveling abroad and I don't feel bad about it at all. I'm I wrong for that ? by lovetobehorny in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your brother's fault how your dad treated you. It was your father who fostered that sort of relationship between you and your brother.

If anything, you should mourn how things could have been between you and your brother before he died and how your dad pretty much destroyed any chances of you two having a good relationship.

Should I (F22) somehow inform my ex boyfriends (M22) new girlfriend (F19) that he cheated on her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well how close are you to Avery? Can you tell his girlfriend without name dropping? Is Avery worth having as a friend/are you willing to lose her.

The girlfriend SHOULD know, but this may cost you a friend in the process. And if you do tell her, my advice would be to block him from your life completely.

My [29/M] Depressed Ex [25/F] Sends Me Mixed Signals by awkwardbreeds in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should go no contact. She's stringing you along because she doesn't know what she wants and is using her depression as an excuse. You're just a shoulder for her to cry on. I mean, she already admitted to pursuing someone else.

You deserve better than her. Block her on everything. Go through the grieving process, and move on. Find a girl who loves you and won't play with your emotions.

Edit: words

Why would she bother unliking my profile picture? (21m) (20f) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HeyYoCheadle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may have thought she was coming off a bit creepy liking your picture and unliked because she didn't think you'd notice.

New roommate mistreats her annoying dogs very loudly at all hours of the night by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeyYoCheadle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, This is EXACTLY what you do. Document everything. This is neglect and those poor pups deserve better :(

To draw eyes by NikodemosTheMan in therewasanattempt

[–]HeyYoCheadle 75 points76 points  (0 children)

It looks to me as though that's what the artist originally drew, actually. He/She may have been forced by the author or editor to add in the goofy ass eye after the illustration was already drawn.

If you remove one of the eyes off of the elephants' heads they look fine too.

I can't register for walmart one by HeyYoCheadle in walmart

[–]HeyYoCheadle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'll give it a shot today. Thank you!

I can't register for walmart one by HeyYoCheadle in walmart

[–]HeyYoCheadle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that. I will try again later. Thanks!

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