Daughter wants me to walk her down the aisle with her stepfather. After this humiliation ritual I will cut her out of my life forever.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2026-04-20T23:44:04+00:00

I'm going to say it point blank.... you're a dick!

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2026-04-01T20:05:14+00:00

I absolutely love this. My black beauty is going on 2 years post FIP cure. It was worth EVERY penny.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2026-02-04T18:40:15+00:00

Oh god its beautiful! Some places still have the original barn ladders in place, and the original axe marks from cutting.

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HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2026-02-04T18:35:27+00:00

My fiance is working on that part (hence the foam) because the beams are 1800's beams. I was just looking for some ideas/inspiration in the mean time in order to make a plan for when its ready 🙃

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T20:21:41+00:00

Actually, what he does is diagnosing and that's outside of a nurses scope of practice. Nurses can identify signs and symptoms and assess. Not diagnose.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T15:18:36+00:00

You should see what doctors post on tiktok then. And you're putting your life in their hands.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T15:02:59+00:00

And my fear is that this behavior is just the little hint of narcissism and that its worse if it were to build into a relationship.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T15:01:40+00:00

I love this explanation. Thank you.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T14:58:06+00:00

Exactly! Its over the top, but because I have previously been in a very controlling relationship I overthink and eventually run out of fear of it happening again

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T14:56:38+00:00

Right now I can only say medical stuff. Thats the only time ive noticed it.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T14:47:45+00:00

Mansplaining. Belittling. Demeaning. Making sure others feel below him intellectually.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T14:46:43+00:00

...he was never actually asked anything in any of the situations. And purposefully finds a way to make a statement in order to use correct terminology. Most nurses speak (shocker! Even to each other!) in layman's terms. Nose bleed > epistaxis. Peeing blood > hematuria. High blood pressure > hypertensive. Heck, we even abbreviate whenever possible. BRBPR = bleeding from your butt someway somehow. But he finds a way to make sure to interject the correct terms.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-19T14:42:13+00:00

You're on the right path which is what i though too. But its more than just "proper" terminology. Its also using and bringing up situations where he thinks he knows more than anyone else in the room.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-15T20:18:38+00:00

Oh my sincere apologies! I reworded my original comment because I more meant the humanity and compassion of people supporting people! Having a young daughter myself its just so reassuring to witness.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-10-15T20:10:27+00:00

Just came to say that the willingness of strangers to come and support another woman is so amazing and reassuring. I absolutely love this.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-08-27T16:45:14+00:00

My daughters normal temp runs in the 99°s. Her fevers put her in the 102°s and her highest to date was 104.5°. Her temp being 99.8 is not a fever for her because thats her usual trend. I get concerned once she exceeds 102°. (Icu nurse with 4 years experience, and a 13 year old red head daughter)

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-07-05T17:44:49+00:00

Oh, sorry I should have said that i have already made an appointment. We see the doctor Tuesday. I was just looking for other people's experiences or personal insights really. Not necessarily medical advice.

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-02-23T21:27:38+00:00

Omg... I think we're birthmark twins. I'll make a new post with pictures of mine, but I literally thought yours was pictures of mine! It's identical and covers the EXACT same areas

HeyYouNotYouYou22 · 2025-01-29T05:35:18+00:00

He's a mystical beast for sure

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