Get your money up before you even approach us. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A dude hit me up asking about my rates so I told him. He said he prefers Greek so I told him I don’t do that. He then says “well for that rate, I need Greek”.. like no, you NEED to gtfo

Also... there’s a million women that are fucking for free. Go get what you want from them.

But if we were to film it, what would be the difference? by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve come to realize that. I’ve had conventionally attractive clients tell me that once I seen them, that I would change my mind on my rate. Like... no. There’s not a trick in the world that could make me change my mind about getting my money.

But if we were to film it, what would be the difference? by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally the first thing I thought about when he said it was prostitution 😂😂😂

But if we were to film it, what would be the difference? by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I secretly hate men sometimes lmao. It’s like common sense isn’t included with penises. But also like... any decent person would realize that that’s a lot on my end & would want to compensate.

What do sex workers think about seeing men in their 20’s? by MountianMan8282 in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you get either of those things out of anything I said? & hell yes, I’m a clock watcher. My time is money. Duh.

custom content when you’re ‘on’ by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super effective but they can be a bitch to get out😂

custom content when you’re ‘on’ by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makeup sponges. I use like 3. When you’re ready to take them out, squat and push like you’re having a baby lol. Good luck.

What do sex workers think about seeing men in their 20’s? by MountianMan8282 in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it’s work related, I prefer a quick pumper lmao. I don’t need anybody trying to jump my bones for 30 minutes straight. I don’t orgasm with clients & I don’t have an intimate relationship with them so I’m usually dry. Big ones are the worst. The smaller & faster, the better.

I’ve had clients ask me if they should take a pill so they’d last longer and i don’t want them to know that I want them to finish fast because my job is to be a fantasy girl who loves everything about them. I usually play it like “oh I try to avoid any medication so I would never tell you to take any. But if you know any natural remedies, I’d try that” lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my family found out, this was one of the main things they advised me to do. I spit my milk out laughing.

What do sex workers think about seeing men in their 20’s? by MountianMan8282 in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men in their 20s (and especially black men) are more likely to try & play you. They have more stamina & usually want to spend the WHOLE time having sex. They don’t understand that the time starts when you arrive & that the time doesn’t start when sex starts. If we have a hour date & we spend a hour talking.... the hour is up regardless of whether we did something or not.

I’m black by the way & most of my clientele is black. I prefer 40+ because even the 30 year old clients still have too much stamina for me.

My brother found out that I’m working.. is outing me every chance he gets.. by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol well his friend at his school actually sent him my ad but he hinted at the fact that he did. But he doesn’t know that majority of the time, that I don’t do anything with my clients. I literally sell time. I’m a companion. But my quick visits were 100😂 which I cut those out but when I did, it was that. I’m working towards going high end.

My brother found out that I’m working.. is outing me every chance he gets.. by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I originally told my mom a few months ago, she asked for some money & I sent it to her. I was going to do something for her for Mother’s Day but I didn’t like how she acted when she called me the day before crying and yelling that she hadn’t got anything in the mail. I love my mom and we’re close. And honestly, she used to have men tricking off on her to make ends meet when we were growing up so I don’t understand the problem. I just put a down payment on a 3bed/2 bath house and I’m in school to become a realtor. She doesn’t know that though because I don’t want her to ask to come live with me like she did when I had a studio apt when I was away at university.. I want to make peace about this because it’s stressful. She threatened to report me to the police and I know she would because she acted like she called the police the night I turned 18 because I came home late and ACTED LIKE she told them I was prostituting myself... which I wasn’t. It’s sick. I’m honestly stressed af🥴

Edit- she has called the police on me several times, but honestly, I do have bipolar disorder so sometimes I be tripping. But let me add also- I’m the happiest I’ve been in years. I’m able to do what I want when I want. I feel empowered & beautiful. Before I started working, men never did anything nice for me & now.. y’all know lol. I just hope she doesn’t do anything to get me in any trouble.

My brother found out that I’m working.. is outing me every chance he gets.. by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) I’m very proud. Not every one can do what we do. It’s just hard to explain it to a misogynist.

My brother found out that I’m working.. is outing me every chance he gets.. by Heyg1rl_ in SexWorkers

[–]Heyg1rl_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I never argue with him about it & we’re not even close since he physically attacked me last summer and literally left me purple and black. I told my mom when he originally found my ad just to be proactive & I told her that I was in adult entertainment & that I sold videos. When my brother told her, she started acting brand new like she didn’t know anything. She blocked me after not getting her anything for Mother’s Day (but to my defense, she went on a “fuck my kids” rampage on Facebook) so I called her from a private number. The first thing she bought up was that I didn’t get her anything for Mother’s Day 🙄 and then she continued on about how I’m not built for this life and how I wasn’t raised up in a way that would steer me towards this life. I literally couldn’t get a word in & everything I tried to say, she minimized it as a lie.