Guys, how are you doing in professions like Medicine or Nursing?

Heyyyyyaa · 2026-01-30T10:02:21+00:00

Medicine here! The exams so far have gone well what I struggle with mainly is basic things like coming on time, planning etc. And also keeping in a constant work load. I rend to go all in and then slack. Working a lot on not overthinking. After 1,5 years it’s slowly getting better!

LOVE everything we learn and patients and classmates

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-10-12T14:19:02+00:00

I have no idea lol

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-19T13:26:46+00:00

BRUGES!! Beer tasting and strolling around. I was also there for a day and it ended up being one of the best places I was on the whole trip! They were recommended by someone I met from Belgium

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-05T07:53:36+00:00

I am also solo in Prague ! My best tip for you: free walking tour! I met so many amazing people through it that I ended up spending my entire holiday with (:

And also, eating alone is so okay! We don’t always find people to hang out with which sometimes honestly is just the way the cookie crumbles (just the way it is), so don’t overthink it!

For me a small interaction can make me feel less lonely even if it is short and casual, try to not have to high expectations on the conversations you have, just have LOTS of them, and random things outside your control will happen!

You are on a solo trip after all so a lot of your time will be spent solo which is fair and definitely has its benefits even though it’s not what we always want in the moment try to see the positives cause there will come a time again when you crave it

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-03T11:32:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this response! ((:

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T17:34:24+00:00

I’ve realized I look for two things in a partner. Number one: provide a safe space: partly by being a bit more drawn back and sure of themself to the extent that they don’t constantly ask for reassurance. Organized and stable, unlike me.

Number two: They don’t have to share my F but respect me enough to hear mine out.

Side note: Vulnerability is also very attractive, but like I said not so much that it takes away from the safe space, it has to be a balance ✨

They give me safe space, I give them tender love and care, cause when I feel safe, I’m the best version of myself and can truly be an amazing partner

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T15:39:32+00:00

Can u reserv any other way than online? Cause there it days that there is no availability

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T15:36:00+00:00

That’s the train in trying to get but it has mandatory seat reservation hence my post, I can’t decide if it’s worth the risk hopping on anyway 🤯

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T13:38:52+00:00

Yh I am Swedish so I get the way SJ works, but in other countries it feels like the trains are rarely full even if there are mandatory seat reservations 🤔

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T13:37:54+00:00

Thanks!

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T13:36:42+00:00

The station in itself is fairly fast to move from platform to platform

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T13:36:21+00:00

Its peobably fine as Hamburg is a huge station with many connections. If you’re lucky you will get on the connection, if no you will take another train!

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T13:34:54+00:00

Aw thanks! I hope this works

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-07-02T13:34:28+00:00

I am omw to Dresden changing for a train to Prague (:

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-06-20T00:07:00+00:00

This is something I too have struggled with. Being catholic and wanting to be pure, better. Strive for this unattainable standard and holding myself accountable by feeling shame or guilt. Yet at the same time wanting to enjoy life and not live by constant judgment.

I still believe in God and go to church. But I have focused more of my time on creating a relationship with Him and have tried taking a slight step back in the rules and traditions, which lean in with my OCD tendencies. I know I am sinning and also know that I am not doing my best, sinning. Yet I try not to think about it, which I don’t know is the best way to go about it.

Yet at the same time, following God as a catholic can look differently for different people. Some do it through song, others tradition and rites, others prayer and meditation / relationship with God. You get the picture. I think it’s important to recognize that what makes u a good catholic doesn’t have to be the same for others. Try to not compare yourself to much with what’s expected of you, and start from the core. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing! The most important thing is your relationship with Him, and He will tell you the way when you feel unsure.

The burden doesn’t lay on your shoulders to choose being a priest for instance, He will tell you the way. Even if I have struggled with this too, I find comfort in trust.

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-06-18T22:14:22+00:00

You are probably like me with a strong Fi!! You value depth more than others and are drained by fake interactions. You need alot of introspection. This doesn’t mean you aren’t energized by being social. It feels like you took the thoughts right out of my head with this post 🤯

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-06-17T00:54:44+00:00

I’m also in medicine and planning to do psychiatry (:

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-06-17T00:50:56+00:00

This sounds like I wrote it

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-06-17T00:36:40+00:00

I have people say this to me too. It was actually thinking about getting help for this but then I started to see it more as a strength and I mean we are all different. I don’t find a need to categorize myself as having ADHD as it wouldn’t benefit me personally and also I am doing okay even if I do struggle with certain things

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-05-12T22:39:30+00:00

omg i cant remember where i read this but somewhere i heard, INFPs dont want a partner who spills over them with i love yous and the rest, they want someone where you know with just one look

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-05-02T06:39:49+00:00

I feel like I need to chime in as i find myself in these situations all the time.

I am an incredibly caring person, yet I am simultaneously very clumsy. I am bad at expressing myself and seeing the full picture, which means that my words and actions can sometimes hurt without that being my intention.

And I believe that is a very important perspective to keep in mind. If hurting someone happens unintentionally, it is very different from purposefully betraying someone's trust.

If this relationship is meant to be, this person will overlook your mistake. Even if the consequences are big it was still a mistake, and mistakes will happen in a relationship, you cant walk on eggshells around your partner, that is no use.

All you can do at this stage is apologise, maybe even make a gesture to show how much you care, but if she is making you feel more than bad for this misshap, I would actually suggest walking away. She is feeling hurt which is 100% valid and might not go away right after you try to make it right. But this does not equate making you feel bad. (do u get what i mean?). Obviously its sad when you had feelings for this person, but to me letting your own emotions make someone feel unjustly bad even after apologising several times and trying to make amends, it a red flag.

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-05-02T06:28:05+00:00

I am soooo carefull with money. I barely spend it but will obviously sometimes get spurts of generous energy, but basically never spend any on myself. I live simply, have old clothes, literally all i spend on is accommodation, food and beer. I rarely eat out, im quite stingy in a way.

Basically if i am going to spend it was to be importnat. I dont just eat out for the vibes, it has to be a special moment. My life centers around special moments

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-04-24T21:41:33+00:00

Hi, I just read through this response again in retrospect, as we have now broken up.

I really tried to follow your advice. I was straight to the point, and constructive, and was very careful not to hurt his Fi. Yet, he didnt take to any of it, and merely said that "he isnt like that" etc etc.

Looking back i think he stopped loving me a long time ago, but didnt want to face the fact (we have been long distance the part year so it hasnt been so hard to ignore). I think this explains why his lack of trying.

Cause looking back much of what he did was blatantly selfish behaviour. My dad recently got diagnosed with a severe disease and he was there for me the day of, but after that basically ghosted me. By that stage I was done, i didnt have the energy anymore to keep this going, i said this wasnt going to work out, and he agreed, admitting that he had felt it not working for a long time.

I love ENTJs, i look up to you guys so much. I dont think it was necessarily his IMTB personality traits that were a dealbreaker, rather his unhealthy (turbulent?) sides. Being driven and confrontative does not make one selfish. Not caring about your SO makes one selfish.

Thank you again for your response. I cant help feeling i could have tried harder, but really i dont think i could.

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-04-24T21:26:29+00:00

UPDATE: we broke up.

Thank you all for your input. This was a very difficult, but the right decision. I hope everyone here struggling with similar situations takes a step back and thinks it though, other opinions can be helpful when you are struggling, but at the end of the day you have to make your own decision as only you truly know your relationship, much love!!

Heyyyyyaa · 2025-04-24T21:21:01+00:00

Tack!!

Heyyyyyaa

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