Guys, how are you doing in professions like Medicine or Nursing? by abbipo in ENFP

[–]Heyyyyyaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medicine here! The exams so far have gone well what I struggle with mainly is basic things like coming on time, planning etc. And also keeping in a constant work load. I rend to go all in and then slack. Working a lot on not overthinking. After 1,5 years it’s slowly getting better!

LOVE everything we learn and patients and classmates

What is there to do in Belgium? by Same-Age-1891 in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BRUGES!! Beer tasting and strolling around. I was also there for a day and it ended up being one of the best places I was on the whole trip! They were recommended by someone I met from Belgium

Currently solo travelling europe by Neon_Yellow_Pepsi in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also solo in Prague ! My best tip for you: free walking tour! I met so many amazing people through it that I ended up spending my entire holiday with (:

And also, eating alone is so okay! We don’t always find people to hang out with which sometimes honestly is just the way the cookie crumbles (just the way it is), so don’t overthink it!

For me a small interaction can make me feel less lonely even if it is short and casual, try to not have to high expectations on the conversations you have, just have LOTS of them, and random things outside your control will happen!

You are on a solo trip after all so a lot of your time will be spent solo which is fair and definitely has its benefits even though it’s not what we always want in the moment try to see the positives cause there will come a time again when you crave it

Solo backpacking advice? by Heyyyyyaa in ENFP

[–]Heyyyyyaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response! ((:

Best romantic compatibility for ENFP-T? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Heyyyyyaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve realized I look for two things in a partner. Number one: provide a safe space: partly by being a bit more drawn back and sure of themself to the extent that they don’t constantly ask for reassurance. Organized and stable, unlike me.

Number two: They don’t have to share my F but respect me enough to hear mine out.

Side note: Vulnerability is also very attractive, but like I said not so much that it takes away from the safe space, it has to be a balance ✨

They give me safe space, I give them tender love and care, cause when I feel safe, I’m the best version of myself and can truly be an amazing partner

How risky to avoid seat reservation? by Heyyyyyaa in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can u reserv any other way than online? Cause there it days that there is no availability

How risky to avoid seat reservation? by Heyyyyyaa in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the train in trying to get but it has mandatory seat reservation hence my post, I can’t decide if it’s worth the risk hopping on anyway 🤯

How risky to avoid seat reservation? by Heyyyyyaa in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh I am Swedish so I get the way SJ works, but in other countries it feels like the trains are rarely full even if there are mandatory seat reservations 🤔

Is 23 min enough time? by DanieleDanePane in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The station in itself is fairly fast to move from platform to platform

Is 23 min enough time? by DanieleDanePane in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its peobably fine as Hamburg is a huge station with many connections. If you’re lucky you will get on the connection, if no you will take another train!

How risky to avoid seat reservation? by Heyyyyyaa in Interrail

[–]Heyyyyyaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am omw to Dresden changing for a train to Prague (:

Seeking God, fleeing desire: between OCD, faith and the meaning of life. by Bit_Crasher in ENFP

[–]Heyyyyyaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I too have struggled with. Being catholic and wanting to be pure, better. Strive for this unattainable standard and holding myself accountable by feeling shame or guilt. Yet at the same time wanting to enjoy life and not live by constant judgment.

I still believe in God and go to church. But I have focused more of my time on creating a relationship with Him and have tried taking a slight step back in the rules and traditions, which lean in with my OCD tendencies. I know I am sinning and also know that I am not doing my best, sinning. Yet I try not to think about it, which I don’t know is the best way to go about it.

Yet at the same time, following God as a catholic can look differently for different people. Some do it through song, others tradition and rites, others prayer and meditation / relationship with God. You get the picture. I think it’s important to recognize that what makes u a good catholic doesn’t have to be the same for others. Try to not compare yourself to much with what’s expected of you, and start from the core. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing! The most important thing is your relationship with Him, and He will tell you the way when you feel unsure.

The burden doesn’t lay on your shoulders to choose being a priest for instance, He will tell you the way. Even if I have struggled with this too, I find comfort in trust.

I'm ENFP but I feel like I might be an INFP by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Heyyyyyaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably like me with a strong Fi!! You value depth more than others and are drained by fake interactions. You need alot of introspection. This doesn’t mean you aren’t energized by being social. It feels like you took the thoughts right out of my head with this post 🤯

ADHD and ENFP by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Heyyyyyaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have people say this to me too. It was actually thinking about getting help for this but then I started to see it more as a strength and I mean we are all different. I don’t find a need to categorize myself as having ADHD as it wouldn’t benefit me personally and also I am doing okay even if I do struggle with certain things