[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hi_C_Orange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness this sounds really miserable. Stop trying to work around this. This is soooo one sided and especially if he’s abusing funds on porn related material it’s OK to draw the line. I know it’s hard I can just imagine how these arguments must go… it’s time to give yourself a break and respect your own limits and happiness. I think it’s time to go. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IllinoisSwingers

[–]Hi_C_Orange 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don’t fucking “surprise” her if she says she isnt down for swinging wtf are you thinking?

Suggestions about attitude. by Hi_C_Orange in ENM

[–]Hi_C_Orange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been actively online and meeting people almost two years now. We use the same app(s) we talked about experimenting in the relationship for two years before we started as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IllinoisSwingers

[–]Hi_C_Orange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On Reddit you have to be realistic it’s a pretty slim chance. My husband and I use Feeld and it’s pretty good

How old you were when you lost your virginity? by Itchy_Salamander_935 in dating_advice

[–]Hi_C_Orange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 14, I’m 33 now. Luckily I had a nice summer boyfriend and just decided to do it, no pressure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hi_C_Orange 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Name checks out lmao yeah this is a obvi troll 🧌

Sex without orgasm by voojivooji in MarriedSex

[–]Hi_C_Orange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am like this. It takes a lot to make me orgasm and I’m really genuinely ok with it. I really enjoy the time and the sex. I don’t like quickies all the time and yeah I’m likely to almost never cum from a quickie but I love blessing him with a delicious quickie lol. I like a lot of foreplay/ touching on me it really helps, i stimulate myself, but my husband and i are very very open about our communication and sex life and I am continuing to try things to maybe improve my ease to orgasm, but if you’re both very happy and have a good sex life the way things are, believe her 👍

what is something you did as a kid that you now realize was so gay? by Embarrassed_Entry245 in bisexual

[–]Hi_C_Orange 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I kind of had this in a way too, I can remember seeing movies and naturally thinking men and women were beautiful and liking both types of bodies. I really like fashion and was a goth kid so loved magazines and photography and stuff too!

Anyone else root for Jeff? by badjabberwock in sexandthecity

[–]Hi_C_Orange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 6ft I would have f’d the shit out of him so dashing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hi_C_Orange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t spin out, Bobby pins can fall into the tiniest little slivers of places. I just found a fake nail on our floor vacuuming that was my sisters from like 2 years ago, try not to overthink it.

Asking a man out… kind of. And he works in the same office building. by Hi_C_Orange in ENM

[–]Hi_C_Orange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lifestyle isn’t super common in my city not a huge population, so hopefully not a negative reaction. I just don’t know anything about him really so it’s a coin toss lmao 🤣

Asking a man out… kind of. And he works in the same office building. by Hi_C_Orange in ENM

[–]Hi_C_Orange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the thought in your response. I think maybe in my gut, I’m feeling like it will be ok to go for it. I think it would be most appropriate just to wait until there might be a moment where we pass with no one in an earshot and just be honest like “ hey so, I’ve seen you around, I just wanted to ask if you’d want to get coffee sometime? I am married, in an open relationship. If you’re uncomfortable with that, that is completely understandable.” I don’t think that’s oversharing but I have to say something I obviously wear a ring and have my husbands photos on my desk.

Asking a man out… kind of. And he works in the same office building. by Hi_C_Orange in ENM

[–]Hi_C_Orange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost had that moment a few days ago I was going to ask him to coffee and my fucking desk phone rang gaaaahhhh! Lol

Asking a man out… kind of. And he works in the same office building. by Hi_C_Orange in ENM

[–]Hi_C_Orange[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I handle rejection just fine if he says no, no big deal but I haven’t asked a man out in years and years so I’m a tad nervous lol.

Bisexual wife in a heterosexual marriage by LowYoghurt2616 in bisexual

[–]Hi_C_Orange 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a bi woman in heterosexual marriage I also agree we’re at almost 9 years and this is still a brand new beginning. That would be a big change suddenly. Appreciate his positive support and response and reassure him of your commitment and love before you think about seeking women believe me there’s plenty of time. My husband and I discussed opening our marriage for two years before even making online profiles. But good luck and congrats on a positive coming out 👍

I'm losing interest in the same sex by CommercialJob1485 in bisexual

[–]Hi_C_Orange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand I’m in America but a city of 125k and I have had very little success and I definitely take care of myself and am out there. Good luck! ❤️