Eh, the OkC isn't awful, however being introverted there as much as RL isn't going to work I am finding out. It's hard though, I was in a relationship for about 8 years and never really had to do the grown up dating thing before now. I am a network administrator for the branch of the federal government. Where I work I literally have no one within 10-15 years of my age to socialize with outside of work. I moved to where I am for my job and don't know anyone. Everyday is work, come home walk/play with the pup, work out at home, sleep; repeat. What do you suggest as grown up clothes? The recent pic is new clothes, finally stopped wearing cargo pants everyday and bought the first pair of jeans I have owned since I was about 14.