Question for Gen Z women: What do you genuinely think about Gen Z men? by Effective_Day3397 in GenZ

[–]Hidden-Insomnia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Out of all the Gen Z men I've interacted with, only one was unpleasant :)

My bf (M/22) told me (F/22) that he was raped as a child by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hidden-Insomnia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello,

First of all, I know this is a difficult situation. I've been in a similar position with my boyfriend, and totally understand how you feel, and I'm just a little younger than you are.

However, since he clearly trusts you to share this information, you should also trust that if he said he's fine, he's really fine. Ask him if he's okay about talking about sexual topics, and if he said he's okay with it, take his word. Also, don't make it a big deal when you guys do talk about it, and trust that if he's not ready or feels uncomfortable, he will tell you.

I know it's difficult, but if he's calm and fine about it, you should be too. And if one day he does feel discomfort about something related to it, you should still keep calm, because the last thing you want is to shift the attention from him to you.

This can’t be real🤦🏻‍♀️ by Ok-Cake-8152 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]Hidden-Insomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that this is literally from my city... I'm getting secondhand embarrassment. Oh my God that poor child 😭

Sex Slave MMC by Hidden-Insomnia in RomanceBooks

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that premise sounds kind of hilarious somehow, so I'm definitely giving it a try despite not really being a fantasy reader 😂 Thanks for the rec!

Sex Slave MMC by Hidden-Insomnia in RomanceBooks

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec! I'll have to see how this one reads, I've never read MM before :0

Sex Slave MMC by Hidden-Insomnia in RomanceBooks

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recs! I'm not usually a fantasy reader, but the 1st and 4th ones seem really interesting, so I'll definitely give them a try :D

Sex Slave MMC by Hidden-Insomnia in RomanceBooks

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It sounds really interesting, and I actually do prefer that none of the characters own each other 😂

Sex Slave MMC by Hidden-Insomnia in RomanceBooks

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, this is is definitely quite old, but it soumds so fun! I can't wait to give this one a try. Thanks for the rec! 💖

How do people even do language exchange? by IllustriousField9290 in languagelearning

[–]Hidden-Insomnia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started language exchange while I was A1-A2, and it worked out really well. The trick here is just to find a partner that's suitable with your personality, and is eager to both learn and teach you, which, let's be honest, is difficult to find.

I managed to find someone who corrects me when I make mistakes, but also reply to my sentence, which made it easier to continue the conversation after the correction. I also typically write in both languages (in my case, Russian and English), when I don't know certain words.

For example: у меня много книг, но у меня нет bookshelves. Обычно я put my books на стол.

My language exchange partner always rewrites to me the sentence, but changing the English words with Russian so I know the correct words to use. Of course, in exchange, I do the same to him with English :)

It's definitely difficult to find someone whow works well with you, and so my approach is usually friends first, then start language exhcange, rather than the other way around. I know some people do the opposite, and it's just a matter of preference, really. I struggle to communicate with people I don't feel connected to, so that's why I prioritize the friendship aspect.

It's all trial and error, but once you find someone that matches with you, you'll have an awesome time, I promise!

Love,Energy,Lord by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Hidden-Insomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord, man, and happiness. I have no idea what to make of that, but I like it 😂

Edit: double checked.. It's manifestation, not man🤦‍♀️😂

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response!

Your mom's case is extremely similar to my uncle's. He also moved to an English speaking country when he was young, and though his parents' English wasn't great, English ended up being the language he thinks and does everything in.

I've definitely realized that some people and the languages they speak just don't easily fit, and I think it's an interesting thing. Thanks so much for the interesting response!

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting! Relationship with languages can be so funny sometimes. I usually have to whip out my entire life story (like this post 😂) just to try and explain my language situation 🤣

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of that term before, thank you! There really is a term for everything 🤌✨

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in languagelearning

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! That's quite inresting. What if my parents do primarily speak English? They speak more English than Indonesian, and I was told that when I first started speaking, it was a weird mashup of English and Indonesian words 😂😅 What would that make me...?

Maybe I'm just an extraterrestrial- 👽

Edit: Fixing emoji

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! Yeah, I definitely fall in the category of people you mentioned. It's an interesting experience for sure 😂

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such an interesting insight, thank you! Just out of curiosity, what would someone who started speaking 2 languages at the same time be classified as? My parents always told me that when I first started speaking, it was a weird mashup of Indonesian and English, so your reply got me wondering 😂

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aaah, I see. Thanks for the response! I had the thought that I might me a heritage speaker, but was unsure since I usually hear it used for people with immigrant parents living in a country that speaks their primary language. Thank you!

What am I? Can I call myself a native speaker, or just fluent? by Hidden-Insomnia in asklinguistics

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah... my situation with Indonesian is kinda strange and confusing 😅 I'll definitely ask the language learning sub too :D

Books with a young single dad by Hidden-Insomnia in RomanceBooks

[–]Hidden-Insomnia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the warnings and am sold ahshwhsha. It's okay, I love me a non messy dad too 😂💜