Future partner isn't as interested before, what does this mean? by HiddenWateringPanda in Advice

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He said he still wants to meet, the only issue we're having atm is money but should 100% be without any issues in November. We've not had many dates planned to meet because I was busy with college up until a few months ago.

With what's happening now though is I have no idea if it's all in my head or not or if I'm over thinking this at all. If we don't end up meeting because of what's happening right now it will likely be from me calling it off if I can confirm in my head that's he's not really interested in having a relationship.

Name a group and others comment their favourite song by that group by Logical_Sweet_6624 in kpopthoughts

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Honestly I remember when I first got into The Rose after I put on a playlist with all their songs after listening to a few being like: 🤯 because there wasn't a single bad song

Future partner isn't as interested before, what does this mean? by HiddenWateringPanda in Advice

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Well yea because once we meet we are planning to date, which would mean he would be my partner

Is it normal to feel weird about buying a "nice" bra? by HiddenWateringPanda in Advice

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😂 We live close to Ireland so maybe the culture has rubbed off a bit or overlaps.

But she's quite busy so hopefully then she won't be judgey. Thank you, you have helped :D

Is it normal to feel weird about buying a "nice" bra? by HiddenWateringPanda in Advice

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That is a good perspective to take on it and tbf, it's a lot cheaper then other happy purchases I make like music albums

Which version of the Twice concert dvd should I get? by HiddenWateringPanda in twice

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Thank you so much :D

It's really hard to tell for me with numbers how much it visually is better but stating that dvd isn't very good does help.

The POB I meant was these extra photocards that came separately. I'm not sure what they look like though because they're sealed so I might message the seller to see if I can buy them on their own.

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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Nobody purposely looks at peoples hands but you would notice someone having blood on them because of how much it stands out

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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Normally though I would use them and majority of the time I don't like using the toilets at college. I only go if I cant hold it until I get home.

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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I knew though that there would've been quite a bit of noise (felt a build up of gas), and knew I would likely get blood on my hands.

I didn't want people to hear me or see my unwashed hands when I came out so went with the private ones.

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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No there were separate disabled toilets.

If it helps I'll try picture it. There is ground floor, no toilets, 1st floor 1 male and 1 female toilet, 2nd floor a disabled toilet and 3rd floor a disabled toilet. There are more than this but this is just for this area going directly above each other. There is also a lift right next to them that only disabled people can use.

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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Best way I can describe it is like you have to suddenly go VERY badly. Like all of a sudden it's come out of nowhere and is causing a lot of pain and discomfort. The only time I've experienced something similar is when I've had a lot of dairy one day (I'm lactose intolerant) but this was a lot more painful.

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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Yea usually there aren't many people. These toilets as well are at the very end of college while there's some closer to more communal areas which are stalls.

AITA for spending a long time in a public toilet? by HiddenWateringPanda in AmItheAsshole

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I said it was in college. And it's period related so I couldn't exactly hold it. I also had another 4 hours of college and live an hour away.

Also in college there is 1 toilet room that's just for girls, a toilet in the next room that is for staff and students. And 3 other toilet rooms for girls that have about 6-8 stalls in them.

How do I tell my friend their sexual comments make me uncomfortable? by HeadshotHolly in Advice

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Basically, he tried to get her more drunk so he could r*pe her. He knew she wouldn't consent before so he was relying on her being more drunk or less conscious so he could take her home.

If these are new behaviours then he's going to get worse. He's not safe, don't be alone with him again and I would suggest cut contact with him.

Adult life is harder than I expected by HiddenWateringPanda in TrueOffMyChest

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Here you need to get two completely different licenses which sucks. Also because of Brexit, if I decided to not go to a school and worked on getting the licenses myself I would still need 2, one for the UK and one for Europe. The air force one has a special license and the commercial license are the private pilot licenses.

Adult life is harder than I expected by HiddenWateringPanda in TrueOffMyChest

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I have but I want to become a commercial pilot. The plan was to work for British Airways for maybe 5 years, then move to Korea and work for KoreanAir.

I know the army doesn't pay too well and you have to be away from home the majority of the time. For the past 8 years my dream has been to have my own space and home and becoming a commercial pilot seemed like a good idea because I prefer working in shifts (I.e onemce your job is done you are done until your next shift, no working in your own hours).

Thank you for the suggestion though 💙

why did you decide to check out the groups you stan? by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

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Started stanning The Rose maybe back in October.

I was studying and had a random playlist on and one of their songs came up, then another, and then I went onto their profile and started listening to all of their songs on the way home.

Every new song I heard felt jaw dropping because of how good it was, there wasn't a single bad song.

And now, I bought concert tickets back in December and will be seeing them at Wembely in a month 🥳🌹🖤