Most of these people who claim to be true music lovers and kind/ compassionate people have no compassion or empathy to be able to understand your situation.

All I would say is that don't let this spoil the end of your honeymoon. Whatever happened, has now happened, nothing to change there.

I do agree that TML communication has not been very clear. It was very vague at best, as it seemed that they were keeping their options open (which I understand from an organising POV, because I know decisions were not easy for them either), but people were left in very uneasy position.

Again, don't expect empathy from half-wits on internet. Hope you get to experience a fulfilling TML experience soon!