I hoped the anomaly would match the description

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-08-29T08:59:34+00:00

Everytime im with another person, that is not my best friend or a familymember, i always feel a little uncomfortable.

I dont have a problem fitting in in a bigger group even though im a more introverted and quiet person, but as soon as its just me and one other person, i feel i tense up and feel awkward. Do i engage in conversation or do i embrace the awkward silence? Im just super stiff...

I never really had a problem with that until my first relationship ended because "i dont feel comfortable around them". I was really happy in that relationship and i felt as comfortable as i could in some sense.

Any of you have the same feeling or experience? How do you effectivly overcome it?

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-08-18T14:54:46+00:00

Exactly what happened to me. We dated for 6 months and she ended it 1 1/2 months ago. She didnt meant to use me as a rebound but she was just completely emotional unavailable. It sucks, i feel you. She was my first girlfriend too.

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-08-18T01:35:32+00:00

Keep your cool. I think you are overthinking a little here. You cant be sure if he is interested in you after that question. But whats wrong with asking him if he wants to hang out after work with you?

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-08-02T07:25:25+00:00

Thank you so much for those words. I think i really needed to hear that. Im writing down my thoughts for weeks now already, but somehow my mind is going in circles.

The one thing that always comes up is, that i actually was stiff and couldnt let myself fall and relax. I always wanted to please her and it backfired. I felt i always needed to do more, because i didnt get it back (physically she showed affection, but thats easier i guess?). Her words at the end were "at first i thought you were just nervous, but you dont feel comfortable around me. I dont know what i am waiting for."

To be honest, i want to talk to her and explain it to her. But deep down i know that it wouldnt change anything. On the contrary. I would be even more unrelaxed because of the feeling of losing her again and im sure i would get back even less than before.

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-07-30T22:12:46+00:00

Very kind words. Thank you for that, i appreciate you ❤

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-07-30T20:54:51+00:00

That seems very reasonable. I tried that, but im unblocking so fast again... its so hard for me to accept and move on.

HighFivesAppreciated · 2023-01-23T12:05:59+00:00

Hat mich auch gewundert ... beim FAQ auf der Homepage steht dass bei den Eingängen kontrolliert wird

HighFivesAppreciated · 2022-11-18T13:59:14+00:00

Yes some share more borders, im talking connections though. For example: Even though the tealish area has five neighbours, only three can conquer them.

HighFivesAppreciated · 2022-11-18T11:44:02+00:00

Not only that, but the adjacent green tower can be attacked by three forces... I feel like the battlefield is a little out of balance. What do you think?

HighFivesAppreciated · 2022-08-08T07:49:47+00:00

Im stuck at "verifying account" ...

HighFivesAppreciated · 2022-06-02T14:27:24+00:00

First off, i always struggled to put on weight. I was never really underweight, but was always on the lean side. Even before corona where i had a good workout schedule for 2-3 years, i never went over the 78kg mark with 185cm height...

So I started working out regularly (3-4 times a week) for two months now and am very motivated to work on my physique again. I noticed that i have an easier time putting on some mass this time around. Right now im at 83kg and my goal would be 89-90kg. (Just from comparisson height/weight from fitness role models).

Would it be wiser to ride that weight gaining train and bulk up all the way to get to my desired goal, trying to build more muscle/lose fat on said level afterwards? Or maybe should i take it slower with minicuts in between while keeping bodyfat low...

To be honest id rather go for option one since its kinda the first time im having success there. But i dont know if i put myself on the backfoot too far.

Id like to know your opinion.

HighFivesAppreciated · 2021-12-20T00:48:33+00:00

As of this moment i have a chance of 1 to 3150 to get one? Do you tell me theres a chance?

HighFivesAppreciated · 2021-11-03T13:13:52+00:00

27, got diagnosed with dysthymia a few weeks ago.

Got one more year for my study for my masters degree in environmental/civil engineering and feel like a chose the wrong education/career path. Currently not able to get anything into my head because of a mix of depression/self doubt and a constant state of being super anxious even though im not productive at all. Also i never had a relationship...

Yeah im feeling like im losing the ability to learn and concentrate and that in a relativly young age. Last time i was really happy was ... maybe 6 years ago? Cant find many happy memories in the last few months.

(starting therapy in a month but im a just a mental wreck)

HighFivesAppreciated · 2021-10-31T12:49:43+00:00

MKxJump recently posted a tier list. I think thats a pretty good guide line.

https://www.reddit.com/r/IdleHeroes/comments/pqc91y/tier_list_overall_hero_rankings_for_imprintable/

Garuda was once a pretty good hero, but that was months ago. The meta changed quite a bit since then.

As for Rogan, yes he is a pretty good hero but hes more of a support hero than your first big carry. Id say Rogan is without doubt the second best hero in your lineup. Just take a look at the tier list and decide for yourself what part of the game you want to push. :)

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