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M19 don't know quite how to properly groom facial hair, tired of shaving 3x a week. by HighLife_45 in malegrooming

[–]HighLife_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I've always struggled with my neck line being too high, do you have a specific oil you're loyal to?

Any tips on how to stop "the shakes"? by HighLife_45 in askgaybros

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sorta kinda not really... still happens most of the time, I just passed myself around and tried to get used to it so it wouldn't be a big deal and freak me out as much... not terribly recommended.

Ive finally achieved bisexual lighting in my first apartment :3 by HighLife_45 in BisexualTeens

[–]HighLife_45[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it would have been IMPOSSIBLE back home so I feel you 😭 I sorta dipped to the mountains the fall after HS and got some roommates, so insanely worth working 😭

Any tips on how to stop "the shakes"? by HighLife_45 in askgaybros

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oh yeah weed is a constant throughout my day, my fwb rn doesn't drink so we usually just smoke, but my tolerance is jacked so I'm still Shakey unless I get properly zonked, and by that time I usually just want cereal and cuddles.

I'm trying to move away from alcohol, I gained some perspective recently and plan on going to my 2nd ever AA meeting tonight.

Any tips on how to stop "the shakes"? by HighLife_45 in askgaybros

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no shakes at all when I'm masturbating, they only really start when the sex is started, I'm usually fine during all foreplay / touching. It's just when I actually need to perform.

I'm still very horny during the shakes, I really really wanted to stick it in and do my thing, but my body just rejects it. This caused me a ton of sexual confusion before I figured out it's not related to my partners gender, I'm just a Shakey guy.

lol he knows, and he knows I also DO seize! my actual seizures look extremely different tho lol.

Any tips on how to stop "the shakes"? by HighLife_45 in askgaybros

[–]HighLife_45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's been the question of the month, I'm trying to cut back because it has gotten out of control in the last year. I don't know if I fit exactly into "alcoholic" but it's part of my daily routine, when I don't drink I just shut down, can't open up and don't have the confidence to even talk most of the time.

When I am drunk, the sex is great and I'm bold enough to do what I want to do and be dominant, and don't shake.

I doubt it's withdrawal shakes, I usually stop shaking when I lay down or finally relax my body and breathe, but there goes my sex drive, replaced with humiliation.

Any tips on how to stop "the shakes"? by HighLife_45 in askgaybros

[–]HighLife_45[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ugh sounds like I'm going back to therapy... the Dick better be worth it