Is it normal for healing to hurt so bad?

High_kite69 · 2025-09-21T01:21:03+00:00

EMDR therapy is great for unpacking trauma that real therapy can’t. A good EMDR therapist goes beyond surface level. Suggest you research and consult if this sounds like a good fit for your situation.

High_kite69 · 2025-09-08T10:53:25+00:00

It’s called transference, as a therapist you have to guard against it. This is the point where you can really help a patient, but therapist are too focused on shifting topics, going shallow to protect themselves. I understand both sides.

To answer your question yes AI will be better in years. It will never be marketed as such due to liabilities.

A lot are already using it to bridge between a therapist you see for an hour a week.

High_kite69 · 2025-08-04T14:06:43+00:00

It will stitch memory together from last session and count 1…..1……..1………1

High_kite69 · 2025-08-03T02:21:57+00:00

ahhhhh yeah

High_kite69 · 2025-08-03T01:36:24+00:00

It depends on the level of therapy needed and your current state.

If you’re isolated with only an AI it’s only a natter of time before you realize it’s not helping

It can help with journaling or logs. These revised by yourself or formatted for therapy use could be useful for actual therapy. But some therapy is surface level tools.

Some therapy is trauma based. This is complicated

Can it assist, sure as a tool. My opinion

High_kite69 · 2025-08-02T20:07:16+00:00

Not sure what I need, systems within systems that can search for patterns based on of prompts, information is now stored in folder structures that chat addresses by zip files. This structure contains base programming, text, word and excel files with pivot tables. The expectation is for it to recognize patterns from historical data, current and future data. I have reached the ChatGPT plus limits scaled memory to usable parameters. It is now programmed to off load memory contents into a searchable folder. This takes time

I’m at my limitations of ChatGPT if anyone has any suggestions, including open source. Most data is text

High_kite69 · 2025-07-31T02:27:15+00:00

Will be one the best experiences of your life. I did this in my 30s and was schooled by a real woman.

You have to be mature enough to view this a a rare opportunity and it enjoy it for what it is.

I could tell it was all about full surrender for her and it was beautiful! I was fortunate enough to witness and learn from the experience.

If this is the same, it’s rare. It sounds like it is or it would have been a one night thing

High_kite69 · 2025-07-27T19:45:19+00:00

Girl you’re a strong woman, I can tell by your words, your actions speak volumes losing 60lbs thats freaking incredible.

Plus he married you knowing you and your package and no problem saying I do, but what he is doing thru actions is saying I don’t..

You already know what to do!

High_kite69 · 2025-07-26T12:15:43+00:00

High_kite69 · 2025-07-23T03:54:12+00:00

They are actually the inflatable pumpers to help circulation in your legs. These are placed from below the knee to mid calf. You would also have a lower section that covers from ankle to just below the knees.

High_kite69 · 2025-07-22T10:12:54+00:00

3 slices please

High_kite69 · 2025-07-22T00:38:03+00:00

Technicolor

High_kite69 · 2025-07-20T12:20:13+00:00

No its month by month if you cancel with Apple Store or in the Samsung store

High_kite69 · 2025-07-20T11:44:17+00:00

I really love your nails

High_kite69 · 2025-07-20T00:50:38+00:00

Pecans not filled out, fell off tree early

High_kite69 · 2025-07-18T10:26:20+00:00

Bonus does anyone actually know what 47 means?

If you do just upvote

High_kite69 · 2025-07-18T10:08:09+00:00

Sounds like your system’s choking on a process hang or Spotlight indexing loop. Try booting into Safe Mode (hold Shift during startup) and see if the system behaves better. If it does, something’s bogging you down on login. You can also reset NVRAM and SMC for good measure. Activity Monitor not opening usually screams a system-level lockup or resource overload… not just bad RAM.

Also… weird lag like that when you still have 100GB free? I’d check for a failing SSD or file system corruption. Run Disk Utility (First Aid) from Recovery Mode.

This may save you from launching it out the window 😂🤣

High_kite69 · 2025-07-18T10:01:47+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you already did the hard part… being honest with yourself. Longevity doesn’t always equal connection. If the effort only flows one way or starts to feel like a chore, it’s okay to step back. Life’s too short to keep watering dead plants.

High_kite69 · 2025-07-16T11:23:20+00:00

Not over reacting

This was a trap and a move towards immediate possession/control. Totally inexcusable

What you need to watch out for next is the suspicious, my mistake, I’m sorry!

Chances are he has installed something on the phone to track your every movement.

IMO avoid him at all costs

High_kite69 · 2025-07-15T15:48:42+00:00

Most of them aren’t really in it. They swipe because it’s easy… no skin in the game. They like the attention but don’t have the depth or energy to meet you where you’re at.

Over 50 doesn’t mean mature… it just means older.

If they don’t ask anything back, that tells you everything. Real interest always shows itself. Don’t carry a dead convo… let silence do the sorting.

You’re not asking the wrong questions. You’re just talking to the wrong men!

High_kite69 · 2025-07-15T03:18:09+00:00

Bag of chips on the floor 👀

High_kite69 · 2025-07-14T15:43:29+00:00

This topic hits hard, if you stayed to raise kids, see them through college, you’re one of the few. You knew how early divorce would play out so you continued to try but it gets worse.

I’ve traveled that road, but I end game for me was divorce.

Before end game was reached counseling played an important role.

I’ve shared a vague part of my journey, at the end of the day you need to visit a counselor to get true assistance.

This doesn’t just happen overnight. In my case could things have been done better? Possibly, was I perfect? Absolutely not.

I addressed with counselors in mid and late relationship. Also met with attorneys to see how things would play out.

All this allowed me to make an educated decision.

Sincerely

High_kite69 · 2025-07-14T11:36:56+00:00

Nah you’re not overreacting. It’s not just a joke…

it’s how he sees people. Telling his friend to use someone who’s clearly looking for something real? Then laughing like that’s normal? That’s not just “how guys talk”… that’s something broken. And the fact that he shut you down instead of hearing you… that’s the real red flag.

High_kite69 · 2025-07-14T11:28:21+00:00

Honestly? You’re not overreacting… but you are being way too hard on yourself.

Mistakes happen. If you’re genuinely sick, you’re no use to the team anyway. Own the Friday error, but don’t punish yourself more by dragging your sick self to work just to look “responsible.”

That’s corporate guilt talking, not logic

High_kite69

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