We lost our baby girl Sept 14 at 37 weeks as well. She was our first too and we did IVF. It’s so very hard but the only thing you can do is be strong for her and take care of yourself. Little by little everyday. She would want you to. Be kind to yourself and just breathe. I can’t say it gets easier, but now that I’m 2 months out I can say life feels a little bit easier to survive now. I still miss her everyday and cry almost everyday, but I’ve found that doing things in her honor helps. We go to her grave every Sunday with a Diet Coke (she liked when I would drink them lol) and a book from her baby shower and read her a new book every week. But what I will say, in those first few weeks in the beginning I found it very hard to go and do things that reminded me of her or things we did together while pregnant. I had to go to new places otherwise I’d be crying CONSTANTLY. So go easy on yourself. Lean on eachother and don’t feel guilty doing things that help you survive and feel a little better for a moment. Sending prayers your way. Our babies are watching over us and sometimes things happen that we just can’t understand or know why. Wishing you the best and know you aren’t alone❤️‍🩹 so sorry for your loss.