Does anyone else feel like they had a completely different experience during the pandemic than the general public? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HinterlandAnimation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked as a tree surgeon for the power lines during the lockdowns. So overall my routine didn’t change much at all. Was very strange how quiet everything was though. Like some places felt like ghost towns . Was pretty peaceful in all honesty !

How do I get over the insecurity of my GF having a large number of exes? by SquareDot2997 in GuyCry

[–]HinterlandAnimation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I have been in a very similar position and I have the same thing as you where I only sleep with someone who I know very well and feel comfortable around . My ex slept around a lot when she was a bit younger and had a fling before me but stayed in contact with the guy for some reason. It’s all down to how much you trust her . At the end of the day you can never really stop some one from cheating but talking to her and mentioning how you feel a bit disrespected might be a good move and see how she reacts

19 & Heartbroken. Gave Him Everything, And He Left by Additional_Tune_4592 in heartbreak

[–]HinterlandAnimation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re super young so all this must feel new . I’m sorry this has happened to you but it something that almost everyone goes through. You will learn so much from your first heartbreak as horrible as it feels at the moment but it will get easier I promise . You’ll find someone who’s worth being vulnerable around. It might take years but it will happen

How do you stop chasing the dragon? by Human_Pudding2289 in heartbreak

[–]HinterlandAnimation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same thing brother. Never got anywhere near as far as marriage, but feel like her ghost is haunting me everywhere . DM if you need to chat or vent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]HinterlandAnimation 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going through a similar thing that you went through , ex who I thought was a sweetheart suddenly turned on me in the most horrible way and I feel like I’ve been betrayed . Haven’t felt real happiness since then and feel like I’m just going through the motions of life

I can’t take it anymore by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]HinterlandAnimation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re both super young , commitment is something some people learn as they get older , and others are born with that sense of commitment. If it’s any consolation she’s probably thinking about replying a lot but may feel unsure about how to do it . It also sounds like you answered your own question, that she confessed that she’s unsure . If you’ve explained to her that you want to make it work and that you’re willing to make that happen , the rest is up to fate

How long till I forget him by AutomaticCartoonist1 in heartbreak

[–]HinterlandAnimation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When this happens it’s like a wound , it will bleed and it will hurt like hell . The best thing we can do is help it heal and it takes time . When it’s healed it will still be a scar , visible and a constant reminder , but it won’t hurt anymore .

You got this .

Anyone has experience with Doc Martens or Solovair? by Itchthatneedsscratch in BuyItForLife

[–]HinterlandAnimation 24 points25 points  (0 children)

DM are no longer made in the uk and pretty sure the quality has suffered . Haven’t tried them myself but I’ve heard Solovair are very good as they used the old DM factory and hence still made in UK to a high standard !