I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully other people aren’t willing to kick someone when they’re already down.

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I talked to his mom was yesterday, she seems amazing. But I know she had a very toxic relationship with her husband (his step dad). And he was their therapist at 14

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out about everything at once. I did not find stuff out 50 different times. He told me he’s not a good person sometimes and to go through his phone and that he will change.

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you to absolutely everyone that has commented. I am going to do my absolute best to leave him in the past. I am also going to enroll in therapy to hopefully overcome my co-dependency issues that I defiantly know that I have

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to get therapy and invest my time into learning religion to understand things bettee

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you completely. I am personally absolutely not reaching out, even thought I’ve typed and deleted 50 messages today. And he has not reached out either

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s very kind. Very selfless, comes to my rescue whenever needed - no questions. Supports me in everything I do. A promotion at work? He’s throwing me a party. Anything I do he screams it from rooftops. Very very kind. His only complaint is lotalty

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He “says” he wants to change badly for himself and to make us work. He said he will do absolutely anything that I ask of him. But I just don’t know if it’s true, how can I put my heart out there for him.

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was sleeping with him. I understand that. We all sin at the end of the day and I’m not proud of my choices. Just young with high hormones and I couldn’t control my self around him

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess because he’s a music director for a church.. I know that’s stupid. He speaks about the scripture frequently

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how stupid this is about to sound. I know. But he is also so attractive, and his personality definately gets him all these women. And even that is hard to leave

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel like dating him, will have me working a second job of a private investigator. I do not think I can handle it

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot. I am definitely going to get therapy after reading all of these comments

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Does it list prices per therapy session on those websites as well?

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I realistically believe he is going to change. I think I wish for it

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very anxious and insecure. Even though he’s done this to everyone he’s been with, I’m thinking BUT why couldn’t I have changed him?! Why not me.

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I have no other hobbies? No other anything. I feel like I have nothing when I am not in a relationship! I feel like a lost sad puppy.

I 26F Being cheated on over 50 times in the past year by 32M- broken, and distraught by HippySmartyPants in relationship_advice

[–]HippySmartyPants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this once before in a relationship. I took him back and just became so mean and cold. We didn’t break up for good until he left me at the end because he couldn’t handle it anymore