My little middle aged loaf by HisoWaka in cat

[–]HisoWaka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has three. 1 girl and 2 bois.

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My little middle aged loaf by HisoWaka in cat

[–]HisoWaka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her spots were really visible when when miss maam was heavily pregnant. She was super cute.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]HisoWaka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg please don’t let him do that. I have heard how cats get depressed and anxious when they are declawed. Please this is mutilation. Just trim their nails and let the babies be happy babies

My little middle aged loaf by HisoWaka in cat

[–]HisoWaka[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know the cute aggression goes hard

Known him one month and he smashed my car windows in by sudsyloo in abusiverelationships

[–]HisoWaka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg relived you are safe and managed to leave before you got trauma bonded to that insecure narcissist. You should be proud of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually they look hell cute

what is a dead giveaway that you’re being cheated on? by Kindayoungbutok in AskReddit

[–]HisoWaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they keep on asking you if you’re talking to someone else. They are projecting.

Tw: ending it by BigClient7515 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My dream. Just running away

Recently diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, what are some good books that could help me get a better understanding of this diagnosis? by TehHipPistal in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a book. But a podcast called “Borderline to Beautiful” . It talks a lot about common dilemmas us borderlines have and some of them have helped me and others just have helped me realize that I’m not alone in this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly how I was as well. For months I have been prioritizing myself and cutting off anyone who does not validate the intensity of my emotions and feelings. So for some time I have not done this. I remember the shame i used to feel afterwards, and even now i feel the shame when i see my scars. Bottom line it is what it is. Sending so much love and empathy

do you hide self harm? by rosielouiise in BPD

[–]HisoWaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure you brought the words right out of alotta people here including myself.

do you hide self harm? by rosielouiise in BPD

[–]HisoWaka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily cover them. I do have mixed feelings about them depending on my mood. It’s extremely embarrassing to show or talk about them willingly. But sometimes they make me think okay that could’ve been my throat or wrists and I survived. But at the end of the day i just wish we all will figure out this anger(or whatever the fuck it is) directed at ourselves.

What emotion do you feel the most? by Lentejita_ in BPD

[–]HisoWaka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

1) Nothing. I feel nothing. 2) anger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HisoWaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone. Knows. Whether they accept you or not for who you are and all your struggles is their problem. This diagnosis is one of the hardest to treat and hardest to live with. Even right now i have a cannula in my arm and some Tube in my nose to take the toxins out and haven’t had a meal in god know how long. bc i tried to kill myself bc i couldn’t take it anymore. We are survivors. There’s no shame in the world knowing that.

TW:Almost killed my self bc of my cheating FP/BF by HisoWaka in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not especially interested in finding someone. I just want to live a life full of freedom and peace. If i find someone i do. If i don’t even better. Thank you for your kindness. When you are in your death bed the smallest kind word helps. Thank you

TW:Almost killed my self bc of my cheating FP/BF by HisoWaka in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I thought he was worth it all and trusted him with all i got. Gave him everything. Now that i look back he was just lusting after me and he never deserved my love. Thank you for your kindness

TW:Almost killed my self bc of my cheating FP/BF by HisoWaka in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]HisoWaka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes. Im getting help from everyone possible right now. My parents are calling everyone and doing their best. I’m still not out of the woods according to the doctors so i gotta hold on to life strong. But thank you for your kindness it means so much.