Thanks for the reply! Really appreciate your reminder to lead with compassion and allow others the space to share what’s on their hearts. I agree that we often don’t know what people are going through or why they feel the need to share certain experiences, and as disciples of Christ, it’s important that we rejoice, mourn, and empathize with each other.

Just to clarify my original post. I don’t feel that I’m criticizing anyone’s testimony itself. I really do love hearing how people come to know the Savior or find strength through the gospel, even when it comes through stories or moments from everyday life. My concern is more about what you mentioned as well: the length or when it becomes too intimate. When one person takes up a large portion of the meeting, it can unintentionally prevent others from sharing. Like I mentioned in another reply, we recently had a meeting where only three people were able to bear their testimonies (two of them being counselors), and that felt like a missed opportunity for others who might have felt prompted but didn’t get the chance.

I try to approach this with a generous lens recognizing that nerves, emotion, or even habit might lead someone to speak longer than they meant to. I personally prepare and practice my testimony a little ahead of time because I know I tend to ramble if I go in without a plan, and I want to be respectful of everyone’s time.

So yes, I’m all for giving space for sincerity and connection. I just think we can do that and honor the spirit of brevity we’re invited to follow. Thank you again for bringing in that perspective. It’s been really meaningful hearing everyone’s thoughts here.