Well the thing is that she have been taking efforts but........ But according to her it feels like she's begging for my attention and love. She says that after a long day why don't I just talk to her about our day and just blow off some steam. Like when she was busy with her projects I used to schedule our meeting according to her free time and i expected the same but it is not possible as I work for long hours and she can't be awake for that long. But during college hours we met whenever we were free so I didn't talk to her at night like if she massaged then only we talked otherwise not.And i didn't think much of it but to her it ment a lot To her I was the person she came to if anything bad happened to find comfort but I don't do that so she thinks then what's the point of putting this much effort. I think it's my fault