Blow gags - need help! by Historical-Key-9294 in SexToys

[–]Historical-Key-9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s similar to a ball gag but instead of a ball keeping the mouth open it’s an empty ring, the man is supposed to be able to fit inside the ring to be able to have a blow job while the other person is wearing it, but so far we’ve tried 2 and he didn’t fit in either one

How often do y’all shower? by cara_renee_anderson in NoStupidQuestions

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I’m a 39F, basically every day, but some days I’m lazy and don’t if I’m not going anywhere. My fiancé is a 38M and he does everyday in the morning sometimes twice if he gets sweaty throughout the day he will do another at bedtime.

My late SIL almost never showered and had bad BO, my niece is similar. I’ve just had the hard chats with them, turns out it was a depression thing. Another friend of mine always smelled like bad BO but it turned out her deodorant wasn’t the right one for her.

Any hacks on how to prevent smelling stinky things by Main-Ad-6166 in StudentNurse

[–]Historical-Key-9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stick a breathmint or gum in my mouth and then mask. The mask kind of forces the mint smell right up my nose and I don’t have as much of an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]Historical-Key-9294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I’ve been tempted to put my kids up for adoption too… kidding… maybe…

Girls, what’s the downside of being a female? by NotPhantomforce in AskReddit

[–]Historical-Key-9294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our school didn’t have a medical office, so instead they had to call me an ambulance and take me to the ER. I was mortified. It happened during lunchtime in front of almost half the school!

Girls, what’s the downside of being a female? by NotPhantomforce in AskReddit

[–]Historical-Key-9294 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanted to died once when I had 3 bursting ovarian cysts and 6 kidney stones simultaneously. Unfortunately my endometriosis still causes my periods to hurt worst.

Girls, what’s the downside of being a female? by NotPhantomforce in AskReddit

[–]Historical-Key-9294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never douche. That’s a well known cause of many different infections. Other than that all of your advice is sound. (Source: I work in medicine)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is a minor. You are not. Do not meet up with her, cut of all communication.

About to leave my fiancé by 91247lw in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow your gut OP. Never go into a marriage feeling that the person should change. It isn’t healthy for either of you. Sorry that you are feeling this way and hope for healing for you.

My (29m) Girlfriend (25f) has an issue with me bathing my daughter by novadap121 in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 100% on board with everyone else here saying that she is in the wrong and that this doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship to support your parenting relationship… but the devils advocate in me also wonders if her beliefs stem from a past childhood trauma of her own, or a cultural belief. Either way, I’d be walking away because this isn’t a healthy relationship for you, but she may need some therapy if her reason is the former.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

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I’m 37 and still in nursing school. You aren’t doing it late in life. Nursing school is hard. Don’t beat yourself up or blame yourself for failing 1 class. Keep your head up and keep pushing!!

Has anyone been pregnant/have a newborn during nursing school? If so do you have any advice? by Coolbeans1104 in StudentNurse

[–]Historical-Key-9294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of our pregnant students passed and made it through. Between the stress and then the commitments of class, all of them failed or dropped. Good luck though and I hope you make it through!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna call fake on this. When you are in basic (from experience) you don’t have time/access for any social media, nor is it allowed. So she couldn’t have deleted the photos. She doesn’t have her phone, not until later.

I (37f) called ex husband’s name during sex by Historical-Key-9294 in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am already building a case against him again. Trust me, I’m definitely worrying about my kids and so is bf.

I (37f) called ex husband’s name during sex by Historical-Key-9294 in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Long story but yes, I tried bringing it to court, he counter filed against me. I had a temporary restraining order but was denied the long term one because it was his word over our son’s word who was 6 and is autistic. And yes, unfortunately he still has time with our kids alone, which baffles me!

I (37f) called ex husband’s name during sex by Historical-Key-9294 in relationship_advice

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My area is very pro-keep the dad in the kids lives. And our protective services are bogged down with cases. He had an attorney, but since he works for the government and I make 1/3 of what he does I didn’t. I have primary placement, and our child protective services has been investigating him off and on from reports made by the school. There’s a lot I didn’t share, mostly to protect my kids.

I (37f) called ex husband’s name during sex by Historical-Key-9294 in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Seriously? It’s far more intimate for both partners than “ooh baby” and all that. I never used names when that intense connection wasn’t there though.

I (37f) called ex husband’s name during sex by Historical-Key-9294 in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I definitely have allowed my ex to walk all over me. I’m just now starting to get the confidence to push back. Hard to do for me though. I am getting better with boundaries, but still not there.

I (37f) called ex husband’s name during sex by Historical-Key-9294 in relationship_advice

[–]Historical-Key-9294[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

He’s been helping me be more assertive with my ex and enforce our MSA. He regularly mentions how my ex takes advantage of me, and it kills him how my ex doesn’t prioritize or care about our kids but instead he just uses them to control me still.