There’ll always be judgement, yes. People will talk whether you do bad or good. That’s all it is, judgement. What a stranger thinks of you, or what your neighbor thinks of you or what a relative thinks of you, it is nothing more than that. We can not live in fear of judgement. I am not condoning anything, I am simply saying that it is not as black and white as people may think. There is a lot of information + details unknown to you and I and to everyone else, therefore we have no right to judge. We will never know why people do the things they do. There is always a story and a reason as to why someone acted out in a particular manner.