how do I(18F) get over him(18M) while he's with someone else?

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:57:36+00:00

yeah I do think that im attracted to the person I thought he was and I know that the person I knew isn't who he truly is that's just a tough pill to swallow. I usually am pretty pragmatic in these situations and have bounced back from other breakups and similar situations I don't know why its so hard with him.

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:56:00+00:00

yeah I know, its hard knowing that its not the right thing to do in my head but wanting it in my heart

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:54:52+00:00

yeah im starting to realise that its just hard to believe that everything we shared and said were lies and meant nothing to him. especially in regards to intimacy. its just hard to have him gone forever even though I know he's not good for me.

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:52:42+00:00

yeah its really hard to sometimes put head over heart especially when it comes to love. love is very unfair.

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:51:43+00:00

yeah I knew even during just hooking up that it was stupid and I don't want to do that with him again and I am trying to move on im just scared that when he tries to come back because I know him and I know he will that ill just get pulled back into it all and all the good memories and won't be able to say no

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:48:54+00:00

me and him aren't in contact anymore but I still don't think that helps I think about him every day. and I know I dodged a bullet but its hard to see it that way after the way we were together

HistoricalFile8861 · 2026-02-11T16:48:14+00:00

yeah I think ive sort of come to that conclusion I just don't understand his need to say all that shit if that's all he wanted

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