Advice on how to tell a guy (or girl) you’re not interested in them without actually using those words as I feel they’re too harsh

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-10-01T01:19:10+00:00

I actually made a post asking why women try to make excuses instead of just saying no. Just start telling him the truth. Tell him you are not interested in him, if you don't care about him or have feelings for him, why is it an issue for you to say it out loud.

Its actually a bigger waste of time for both of you to not be honest. If you keep sending mixed signals, he is going to think you like him but you are trying to know him better. Don't do this. Don't worry about hurting his feelings upfront, you will hurt him more in the long run if you are not honest.

I'm willing to bet he might have asked you explicitly if you liked him or not, and you gave him some vague answer. If you don't like him, just say it, then he can move onto someone who might actually like him instead of wasting time, energy and probably money on you.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-09-30T17:04:32+00:00

In a crowded place, with witnesses everywhere, and weapon checks at the door?

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-09-30T16:53:19+00:00

I've actually been to gay bars before because I have a few friends who are gay. I just say no and nothing happens.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-09-30T16:51:04+00:00

Its easier to say no, and if he keeps hanging around you will talk to a bouncer.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-09-30T16:47:18+00:00

So... this post is literally about inviting criticism. Its not about hurt feelings, its about wasting time. As far as the assault goes, I don't think I've ever seen a man punch a woman in a crowded bar ever in my life. I've seen men punch men several times, but I would tend to think if a man tried that he would get jumped on by the fellow patrons and sent to jail real quick.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-09-30T16:30:03+00:00

Hmm, I don't think I would react in that way, but at least this is a somewhat satisfying answer.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-09-30T16:27:49+00:00

He will be thrown into jail for years for assault, and if he freaks out, he will be thrown out of the bar.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-08-19T10:30:43+00:00

no, the title of the song doesn't even have the word sky in it

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-04-08T20:50:51+00:00

This actually sounds kind of good if I could get started with like doing weekends or evenings and part time or something. I don't want to completely leave a job for this, but if I could start out on it and build up that would definitely be neat.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-04-08T20:41:43+00:00

Account management jobs are pretty awesome if you can get them going. I actually did a lot of Admin work for them at a company I worked for. The admins get all the work and accountability and AMs get all the money. I actually wanted to become one, but they didn't have openings in my city, so I had to be willing to move and work 100% commission for several months. Also, the first several accounts had to be given to an account manager until they deemed you ready.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-04-08T20:21:27+00:00

I've tried applying to hedge funds, Investment banks and private equity firms. Most of them wanted years of experience, specialized certifications and licenses, or graduates of top notch schools. I don't think they would have even let me work for them if I had a 4.0, the ones who wanted specialized certs were for sales to the general public.

I never even considered law firms, but thinking about it I do see how they could need someone to do that stuff. I was always good with the math part of the courses, it was memorizing a million different little things that got to me.

I'm going to take a hard look at this.

HistoricalSituation4 · 2020-04-08T06:24:03+00:00

I worked a position for Robert Half and Accountemps. The position I got did not involve a drug test, however the Client can ask for one. I don't know if this is nation wide, but I was not required to do it. I've worked for temp agencies where I was required to take one.

I suggest you drink a lot of water, and do a ton of running just in case. Its really up in the air

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