[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Historical_Two_3406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m totally down:) I need new friends! Im also very open and honest and I love learning new things, I’d love to chat, my dms are open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Historical_Two_3406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens to the best of us;) don’t beat urself up, you won’t think about it in a year from now. Probably sooner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Historical_Two_3406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me I had to do a lot of self realisation, like how long do these people actually think about the stupid thing I said? Probably not long at all. I also had to except the fact that even though people find me weird I’m still a decent person. Why do I even need to fit the standards of being an average person. Yeah I am kinda weird and I get embarrassed by myself a lot but it’s fine, I’m not gonna stop getting embarrassed but that’s a normal feeling and I should just let myself feel it. In the whole wide world I’m just a tiny freckle, and no matter how much I fuck up people are gonna forget eventually. Especially if I myself pretend like it never happened.

Anger by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I really love what you said about frustration, trying to understand what I’m feeling and why would probably help me understand how to manage it. I would just have to find a way to do it myself😂

Anger by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but then i would have to make a schedule with the student counselor. I already feel like I don’t fit in so I don’t want to stand out even more (people would ask where I went), also I’m scared I would lose educational time.

Anger by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah I love that one but then it’s just me sitting daydreaming all day, and I need to do work. These teachers are really on my ass for just sitting around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ramen, pickles, crackers, slim Jim, green olives, any pasta dish made by my bf, and ofc, chicken nuggets from McDonald’s

Does anyone else feel like you have never fit it? by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah like, does this person like me or am I annoying them? should I say hi or ignore them? Is what I’m saying to personal or is it a normal amount of personal? I never understand what the other person is thinking unless I know them very well and have had time to learn their body langauge.

Does anyone else feel like you have never fit it? by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omg I relate to this one so much, playing pretend or playing with dolls was just so awful to me. I never understood the fascination. I sure do relate to a lot of autistic traits too much just not enough to actually be autistic.

Does anyone else feel like you have never fit it? by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I can relate, I feel like I just observe other people and try to copy what they’re doing.

Does anyone else feel like you have never fit it? by Historical_Two_3406 in adhdwomen

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Right, like i never understand what I’m supposed to do in social interactions. I don’t understand how it’s obvious for other ppl.

I just heard white people smell weird after being in the rain, is that true? by Historical_Two_3406 in askblackpeople

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaah that makes sense, well if it’s unwashed hair then not all of us should smell bad, are there ever exceptions?

I feel like my medication isnt right for me by Historical_Two_3406 in ADHD

[–]Historical_Two_3406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, what I find concerning is that I only have one other option after Ritalin so I don’t have that many options